@arinashoco: Why do some South Asian men marry within their culture while idealizing foreign women? #fyp #Relationship #southasia #srilanka #feminism [South Asian men, Sri Lanka, India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, relationships, dating, interracial dating, Madonna complex, white women, marriage]

Nisal 🇱🇰 🇨🇦 :

What makes you the expert of South Asian men?

Maleesha :

South asian men sexually unsatisfied, they need sexual plesure from white woman. they are very attractive.

fungal :

lets not act like this isn’t because the british implemented this ideology. they basically taught that white = better, more desirable and it still severely affects india today

Akila Talks :

Cant agree more. As a south asian they always choose the good girl who doesnt drink who doesnt go out. Someone who cooks cleans & bare kids. Thats why I got away from my culture.

බිනරmalee :

Can't agree more. Anyway my partner is Chinese, and there are some qualities I generally notice in him compared to what I often see among our people. He sees cooking and doing housework as basic life skills, not something based on gender. He cooks, feeds me, cleans the house, and gives me princess treatment. Once I told him, "I'll learn to cook someday." He replied "No, I'd rather focus on my job and handle the cooking too, because your cooking is terrible haha." Many Chinese male friends I know are also proud of their cooking skills😭

snigdha 🪷 :

idk why people are hating, you are 100% right and it’s definitely something we need to talk about more thank you!!!

quirkybery16 :

let's please not generalize, the vast majority don't do this. at least not in the homeland

reassunrise :

It’s not just south asian man but all men in general like south asian or some other man from Asia etc might dream of white women as their wife likewise white men dreams of having a different ethnicity as their wife like south asian/ east Asian or Arab etc.

RocketRaccoon6996 :

South Asian men on top

Je Mon :

This is so true, my ex wanted a Sri Lankan because compatibility wise it would work out and he really pushed for me and him to make it work but at the beginning of the relationship he was obsessed with looking at white blonde girls online. I realised he only wanted a Sri Lankan because it made sense for him socially so I left

Dh Be :

Indian women do this too…

Hydyr :

What kind of south Asian men? Do you know how diverse that demographic is? A white skinned red headed man can be classified as south Asian? And who’s idealizing who?

Bhgdbj :

So I’ve kinda noticed a lot of women don’t understand the difference between men having a lusting type and taking someone serious type, he isn’t valuing one secretly more than the other. There’s also difference in how he treats the lusting type. I say this as someone who always tries to identify this in diff race men myself, someone lusting after u while they have a wife doesn’t mean they secretly value/want u more

Galvistor :

Once men can have multiple wives - everyone will win like it was in the past because they have the material wealth to maintain larger families

West Windsor NJ :

I’m a Sri Lankan who came to the US when I was a baby and grew up here and I couldn’t agree more

anicatttttt :

Yup

IMDKS :

we dont

user68161603842 :

women literally do the exact same thing

Kate Supnet :

Good point 🥰

boing_2775 :

sufiannumaan813 :

Men can have multiple types???

user778277 :

Vice City :

you know too much.😭😭😭

Suckerbuster Baby Weaning Balm :

spot on Well said!😁👍🏼