To have a village you have to be a villager. Skipping your red light therapy and 9pm bedtime (where you are scrolling not sleeping) to have a beer with your friend on their birthday isn’t going to set you back. It’s when you do it everyday.
2026-07-22 22:39:54
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bitchpwease369 :
I had a friend with BPD freaking out on me because I went out with my friend without her and she was like cussing me out and I said I'm not engaging in this conversation until you can speak to me with respect and she's like you're stonewalling me actually no it's called boundaries. 😂☠️people love to weaponize therapy talk
2026-07-22 21:00:17
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Someonesomewhere :
Boundaries are not a method for controlling others. Boundaries are a method for keeping yourself in check.
2026-07-22 23:43:31
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pytn :
Two of my best friends literally skipped my bday bc of this. Safe to say we do not talk anymore LOL
2026-07-22 19:14:29
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Princess Coley :
Or they think a boundary is YOU CANT DO THAT!…what a boundary is supposed to be is not “don’t do that you’re not allowed to do that” it’s “if you do that I am going to have to take a step back from this or not being in a friendship/relationship with someone who does those things/things to me”
2026-07-23 02:56:40
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Chiming Jade :
When I tried to talk to my then-boyfriend about how he assaulted me, he said that bringing up such a heavy topic without a warning ahead of time was inconsiderate of his need for mental regulation. ☹️
2026-07-22 22:54:50
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Angel Aguilar :
Boundaries are fine! But they have to come with good intention.
2026-07-22 20:12:18
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anne :
Love this take friend
2026-07-23 00:29:04
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꩜ :
yess these people are insufferable
2026-07-22 18:17:14
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kaelynn 🫧🪩🫀 :
💯
2026-07-22 17:48:04
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