honestly switch the roles, think about what i was doing before and how i ONLY want him now and could care less about anything else
2026-07-23 04:11:07
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Kyra 💋 :
yes i have it. no i havent got rid of it. i just dont act on the thoughts
2026-07-23 05:37:53
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emme :
I get retroactive jealously on rare occasions now but when I used to get it bad I’d just think of what I was doing at the exact same time he was and be like damn I can’t even be mad at him cause I was doing worse. As long as he’s with you, showing only you loyalty, constantly reassuring you on his own accord, and etc, you got nothing to worry about<3
2026-07-23 12:32:30
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lexi_jam :
I didn't even know what retroactive jealousy was until the vent now app told me what it was thank god for it
2026-07-22 23:09:40
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QueenNikki :
I only got it once and I realized that there is literally nothing he could do about it. I can’t go change my past and he can’t his, get over it
2026-07-23 12:24:34
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Trinity🫰🏻 :
At the end of the day, he chooses you. Remember that the past isn’t no longer present. Make the future better. Don’t lose something good because the past!
2026-07-23 06:20:31
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mags :
Yes and we’re literally engaged. Realizing I’m the only woman he’s ever proposed to and remembering that he CHOSE me helps.
2026-07-23 15:01:01
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laika :
idk one day i just stopped caring and was like if he wanted to be w them he could call em up nothings stopping him so im just not gonna care ab em cus he hasn’t done that and also telling myself im the baddest helps
2026-07-23 08:43:00
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futureifhewasachick :
sometimes u gotta just and then ur ok
2026-07-24 02:43:11
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heyitstaeya :
Make your own firsts! Things he's never done in any previous relationships that are just special to the two of you.
2026-07-23 17:15:05
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𝐴𝐿𝐿𝐸𝑌 :
idk don’t ask me
2026-07-23 05:21:50
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MamaCvnty🍒 :
I think the longer you stay the less it gets … I did for a while when my relationship was new , the first few years … but we’ve been together 10 yrs and I’m confident my husband loves me the most and I’m the only one that was meant for him
2026-07-23 22:56:37
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LB :
i do, but then i remember that he is with me for a reason. he chose me. if he wanted her then he would be with her.
2026-07-23 03:39:05
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🌅 🌴Cherry 🍒 🪩 :
Realizing if they treated him good or better he’d still be with them..He’s told me horror stories of every single one and I can feel a mutual deep connection and trust with him.If we don’t have trust you don’t have anything and realize that not every man you meet is even remotely the same .Just Trust and honestly is a hug factor -for me anyway.❤️
2026-07-23 05:37:32
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Hanhaha :
i dealt with it really intensely, really was so upset over it but with a lot of reassurances my bf gives me and by the time passing, i realised it doesnt really matter (still get random retroactive jealousy but hes quick w the reassurance and it fades really quicks comparing to b4)
2026-07-25 01:46:21
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Miki :
Realize you’re way badder and move on 😁
2026-07-23 20:27:35
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Jada :
Remember. He loves you now, the others didn’t meet his standard of what he wanted to he moved onto better. You are better that’s why he abandoned the old girl.
2026-07-23 18:46:52
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$K$ :
Girl when you find out let me know too ok
2026-07-23 20:34:42
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Jasmin🌟 :
Yess! But I always remember that he’s older than me and he obviously experienced things way before me. I also have to think about the things I was doing before him! Then remember that we’re together for a reason and wouldn’t be together if either one of us was still stuck on someone else❤️
2026-08-02 23:16:08
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Kaylea🤍 :
Girl to girl, as a girl who waited for my husband, it’s roughhhhh. We’ve been married for 5 years, together for 6, have bought and lived in two homes, have two toddlers, and whenever I think about it, I’m sick to my stomach still💀💀
2026-07-24 03:07:41
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molly 🐄 :
You have to remind yourself that at the end of the he chose you and if he would rather that he wouldn’t be with you. Why be jealous when you HAVE what you both want. Yes they shared things together but you 2 can share a million times that when it works out.
2026-07-24 03:47:23
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zoë 🕷️ :
it takes a VERY long time but you have to let go to find peace and remind yourself not to take everything so personally. he didn’t date people before he knew you so that you would feel this way on purpose, we are all own people living our own paths. and his led him to you, let that be enough ❤️
2026-07-23 13:04:57
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chloe😋🌻 :
thought i was in the clear then i looked it up
2026-07-24 18:03:23
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breezy young :
therapy. i know it sounds scary but not only does it help so much but having someone to talk to who doesn’t know your outside of the room, and cant judge you is so nice.
2026-07-23 03:55:45
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Mills 💋 :
You gotta remember they’re their own person. Put in perspective how you would feel if they were mad you was with someone before them you would feel awful simply because what can you do you can’t go back and change that it’s your past and it should not affect your future . Had this convo early on with my other half and it’s a needed reality check sometimes
2026-07-26 12:56:34
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