I will not offer to pay for jack on the first date. especially if the guy asked me out.
2026-07-22 21:43:52
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moopvwar :
Not offering. Will say thanks.
2026-09-05 02:39:53
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neveryours1984 :
One time I offered to pay for my drink and he looked at me like I’m an alien and said “don’t insult me like that” but clearly not all men like that
2026-09-04 01:15:14
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cillaa560 :
My bf paid for my moms birthday dinner all my family and her friends.. so I got our drinks later that night 🤷🏻♀️
2026-09-04 19:48:14
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meli_untethered :
I don’t like or do the “pretend” thing. I will show my gratitude and say “thank you so much for dinner, that was very kind of you and I really enjoyed it!” Expecting a girl to pretend to reach for a wallet is weird.
2026-07-23 05:47:09
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KH :
How do they feel about a woman giving them flowers?
2026-09-04 06:31:00
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Nique🇺🇸 :
I offer to pay but I’m judging if he says yes
2026-07-23 03:21:09
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stitchergirl :
better yet, he pays while I'm in the bathroom so there's no awkward moment
2026-07-23 01:20:32
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pinky_and_co :
Ya I think it's a weird take to expect a woman to offer. Ick.
2026-07-23 10:54:42
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Jessica :
I will never offer to pay, If I offer to pay that means there’s no 2nd date🫣
2026-07-23 05:44:57
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user9577978915121 :
This is why women don’t date anymore👍
2026-07-23 16:20:22
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urbanmermaidbeauty :
If I offer to pay, it means, I've already put you in the friend zone.
2026-07-24 14:34:04
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KelleySue :
Call me old school, but the men I date would be offended if I reached for anything other than my lip gloss.
2026-08-10 14:34:07
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Serena :
Fake it so the man feels better….interesting.
2026-07-23 02:58:17
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🛼 Rollerskategurl 🛼 :
I'm not offering to pay. I will always say thank you.
2026-08-03 15:44:52
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sarahhh :
Why make us go through the awkwardness of the reach or pretending to pay? Because you want more of a gesture than a “thank you” for acknowledging paying for a date. 💀
2026-07-22 23:12:25
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Pray_for_Prada :
I’m not even reaching for my wallet
2026-07-23 12:58:16
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Isabel :
A true gentleman doesn't expect his date to pay for anything. I've never paid nor I've offered. I will say thank you though
2026-08-27 04:44:45
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rachhart06 :
I refuse to fake anything for a man to feel good about himself doing the bare minimum. But I will definitely say thank you
2026-08-03 19:02:57
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Matcha and Me :
Funny because if I reach for that check trust that I do not like you romantically.
2026-07-23 10:40:33
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QueenB8675 :
The fact that I left my bed and put nice clothes on. l🤣😂 already met you halfway
2026-07-24 23:17:36
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Madison :
By wanting her to pay for ice cream after or whatever, you’re setting the expectation that for the rest of that relationships that paying is something that will be switched back and forth. Absolutely not.
2026-07-25 00:57:44
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California Girl :
I don’t reach not even an inch. But will always say thank you
2026-07-23 05:56:40
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