@coachbenny5: If your ex said that they lost themself and they need to focus on themself #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #nocontact #getyourexback
My ex said the same.. but literally 1 month before those words was still saying she loved me and adored me! I’m so confused! Do I let her go or wait x
2026-07-23 08:47:47
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EP.90 :
She wanted to work on us just a day before the breakup. The next day, she simply said I can't do this anymore.
2026-07-23 13:03:30
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user9065397534951 :
I just want my boyfriend back to the way it was in the beginning
2026-07-23 15:45:31
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Celeste :
Omg this is exactly what he said
2026-07-30 01:10:00
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mesa :
the timing is crazy
2026-07-23 12:23:17
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Amanda Lahr :
Be aware of these blunt narrative of black and white situation. Sometimes the other person is telling the truth, they lost themselves in the relationship not because they are avoidant, but quite the oposite. They put everything they have in it and still feels lost. Anyway
2026-07-23 12:16:30
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Tay.thedon_ :
I’m the ex that said that & I genuinely feel that way, I poured so much into the relationship that I forgot to care about myself, I gained 20 pounds which is a lot, I had no hobbies/life outside of my relationship, I also felt very depressed because I couldn’t stop thinking about the ways I’ve been wronged which caused resentment & yes I communicated, soooo much & it felt like it was going nowhere & I had to leave for me & my mental health and make myself better. I owe myself that much.
2026-07-23 21:52:35
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Габриэль :
I pіcked up The Timеless Prinсiples оf Lіfe bу Aaron Friеdman bесausе i keрt ѕeeing рeоple mentіon it... didn't еxpect to relаte to it thіѕ much honеstly
2026-07-24 14:11:17
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Froggy :
Nah i have an anxious attachment style and finally realised i need to work on getting my validation internally and i cannot do that whilst pooring everything i have into a relationship that i am not getting nearly as much back out of
2026-07-23 15:09:22
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Savannah :
We’re on a break for this reason. I’m struggling
2026-07-23 16:26:54
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Amee🖤🤘🏼 :
he literally said he didnt love me anymore then changed his mind to i need time to think🥺
2026-07-30 05:35:35
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Lidia Lemke :
Yes and no. Some do. Others could be there for you while they were interested and the moment they stopped caring then the change to this format happens. The third options is they just don’t love you and used you while they could benefit from it. The fourth is that they don’t want to feel they are the villain and deflect like this. In any case, run away and block them as soon as possible by the first signal. You will thank me.
2026-07-31 13:33:58
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Juliet Capulet :
But theyre grown ass people 😩
2026-07-23 20:03:34
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selipede :
All of this while calling me the love of his life the day before mind you
2026-07-23 20:30:44
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henry :
never dating an avoidant again
2026-07-24 13:38:11
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Justlibby :
I actually think he’s a fearful avoidant
2026-07-23 03:57:54
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Missfit Awakening :
He said exactly that!!!!
2026-07-23 20:08:20
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103124 :
...and then moved "she's just a work friend " in with him 🤣
2026-07-23 15:36:50
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Charlotte :
or its narc who wants to focus on another supply.
2026-07-23 21:48:30
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EYN | Salud Natural 🍃 :
isnt ironic they said i dont know, im lost and boom out of the blue they know everything.... when someone else comes to the picture??? 😒
2026-07-23 09:28:44
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Zaphetha Ngcaba :
You, as the other person placed a huge emotional investment in the relationship & when they get up & leave you're left with questions, you feel abandoned, confused & wondering WTF
2026-07-23 18:30:55
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вона :
do they ever come back?
2026-07-23 11:07:36
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Nyx :
This is me. I’m working on me but I wasn’t the only problem
2026-07-23 14:21:17
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Whiteheaven :
Yeah this was what she said, I don’t know what to do know, I’m lost, I feel like I can’t make it, last time I saw her was 7 months ago and still feel the same, I don’t understand why I believed her when she told me she loved me
2026-07-23 07:56:45
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