@withjlc: Replying to @1lyc4m most women desire men who choose to lead by example rather than tit for tat. you can’t be a follower expecting the respect of a leader.
It’s honestly disappointing that some people just don’t get it, someone who lacks the ability to lead with integrity, responsibility, and maturity is unlikely to build a healthy, stable life with you.
2026-07-23 04:20:49
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TAYLOR CONZELMAN :
You are doing the lords work
2026-07-26 00:14:14
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notthatserious :
It’s a broken archaic idea that either partner needs to be the “leader.” Equal partnership is the only sane goal
2026-07-23 20:20:36
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Mellow :
I want to lead by example in every relationship I have, platonic or romantic. I don't think that I'm some paragon for what is right or wrong, but I always operate with love and grace in my heart. So I hope, even if I make the wrong choice, people will see my heart was in the right place at the time.
2026-07-24 12:46:27
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Bingus Khan :
this just feels like bioessentialism
2026-07-23 02:22:04
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KHAVON420 :
I like your takes but I don’t think anyone should desire qualities out of someone else in order to help them with the lack of those qualities within themselves. If I can emotionally regulate, I most likely want a woman who can do the same.
2026-07-23 03:38:38
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ʕノ•ᴥ•ʔノ ︵ ┻━┻ :
i agree women have uphold and selective with patriarchy based on social standards and observation 👁
2026-07-24 14:19:54
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Aisha :
I went through the comments on the other video and I am so annoyed. They act like there are not plenty of places where women balance men in relationships too. We are complementary to each other. They have no problem with us being more nurturing than they are and giving them space to be vulnerable. They like the fact that we are emotional when it suits them. 🙄
2026-07-24 13:01:55
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RalphyDvincy🇻🇨 :
He speaking the truth, my gf bounces off of my energy, I will never mirror her, it’s unproductive. I am the anchor I keep us in place💯
2026-07-23 03:48:18
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W :
All the salty dudes in here missing the point here is wild
2026-07-23 03:13:32
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TheStudioNomad :
one hundred percent❤️
2026-07-24 22:52:49
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CBMX :
Some people think being submissive or shy correlates with having no ambition or leadership, which is just wrong. You can be a soft introverted guy but still plan dates, initiate tough conversations, etc
2026-07-23 00:18:41
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Netscape97 :
You da real one
2026-07-22 23:01:35
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sammo :
Part of being a leader is also recognizing the skills/strength of those around you and grow them. You’re more of gardener, you garden is a reflection of those around you 🤝
2026-07-23 00:50:21
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SAY :
You do not lie
2026-07-23 03:30:11
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Makita :
I always tell my friends that as a man. the most musculine thing you can do is being decisive. where you go, what direction the relationship goes, how a conversation plays out etc... then the lady will have something to work with. the "where would you like us to go on Saturday" is whack as hell...
2026-07-23 04:15:19
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Brandon B :
Bro seriously never misses.
2026-07-23 05:55:06
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🇱🇧🇵🇸 :
I think emotional regulation and emotionally numbness are being mixed up here, some dudes think they’re supposed to hold their own emotions and someone else’s without showing any signs of struggle, which isn’t true
2026-07-23 00:01:18
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Alexander Hada :
I enjoy your advice. Glad to hear it.
2026-07-23 01:31:41
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Heather :
Why are you so on point
2026-07-22 23:09:58
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Champ :
Can you do the other side like how women need to be receptive to this obviously. Like be receptive and listen to a man when he is genuinely speaking calmly about xyz . instead of gaslighting, silent treatment or raising their voice etc
2026-07-23 17:52:21
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samuelaaa :
leading by example is the literally just treating others how you want to be treated and doing what you want others to do. if they follow suit, that is great. and if they don’t, then you simply extricate yourself from the situation. it’s not about superiority
2026-07-24 16:09:25
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