that is still love bombing and still not good. the ""special" interest period Is basically endorphins and attention on something interesting. no real feelings
2026-07-23 13:34:03
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Molly DM :
Ok but here’s the bad news… when/if the hyperfocus or special interest fades, you will spend the rest of the relationship chasing that level of attention and connection because you know it’s possible but it is usually not possible anymore….
2026-07-28 13:49:29
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Rogue :
people with ADHD tend to do it too
2026-07-23 12:26:46
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Ryanna :
Oooo he’s Audhd 🥰 does that mean it’s doubled?
2026-09-21 16:48:41
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Ian :
wtf is love bombint?
2026-07-23 15:41:19
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Big the cat :
I have the double whammy rn that she's my special interest AND I have trauma and she's the first person in over ten years to make me feel safe so I'm a sappy sentimental mess
2026-08-15 09:59:16
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Yt:Arcangel1123 :
Just cut off my special interest
2026-08-27 16:18:57
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MeleficentFaith93💀🏳️🌈🎶🎮 :
As an autistic woman.....
I've never felt so seen and validated omg 🤣
2026-07-26 05:28:51
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AzulCeleste :
It can also be both 😬
2026-08-27 23:35:25
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ash :
Or what if she’s really big Overthinker and she tries to give you all your love because she’s scared that he’s going to leave her for someone better
2026-08-27 15:41:50
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TattooedGoddess :
Yeah… I thought I was being love bombed… nope I’m just my man’s special interest and obsession. I love it.
2026-08-27 01:17:27
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💀Beat Lycan :
finally an explanation 🙏❤️😂
2026-08-01 19:46:08
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Lushrette33 :
its not love bombing because it doesn't stop... for like ever
2026-07-25 23:48:58
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CailadelRose :
That’s me. It means I like you. Like a crow. But I learn what you like. I hold the info in reserves. If you become my lover, ai learn your allergies, what foods you like and what style and size clothes you like. I send pictures of things you might like to hen I thrift. If you like it, I grab it.
2026-07-23 18:15:01
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Gabi Baker :
My new special interest has been cleaning and real estate. This has been a good season for my family lol
2026-07-23 17:12:47
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ToXicRoSe24 :
sometimes my mind gose blank and I forget im in a relationship and go "oh shit gotta go show my love how much I love them"
2026-07-27 17:37:07
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RandoWeb :
or ADHD
2026-07-23 18:07:48
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Trevor Shawver :
my favorite part was the disclaimer at the end. lol
2026-07-22 23:14:02
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Kat 🌻 :
*while it lasts. Then they disappear and use it as an excuse.
2026-08-26 20:55:13
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Chris Gray :
yeah , sorry about that
2026-07-26 23:06:23
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Annika :
I'm Autistic and this makes complete sense to me
2026-07-24 11:45:41
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TheSoftSideOfLife🌸 :
Wait, is this what I’m doing? 😭
2026-08-27 16:59:00
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steph.asaurus.rex :
We’re both tistic and adhd 😂 but he’s the greenest flag
2026-07-24 16:47:58
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em :) :
this is probably how my gf feels right now. i’ve literally done so much stuff for her simply because i like seeing her face light up when i surprise her with stuff she likes 😭
2026-07-23 02:54:26
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Memeifox :
Soooo if we've been love bombing each other for going on 11 years....are we each other's special interest?
2026-07-27 16:33:43
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