@uwadiegwu072: Messages suggested by me Don't say: "I'm always here if you need to vent, you can tell me anything." Say: "I get it, it's a lot. But I'm not trying to be your therapist. What's actually going to change?" Don't say: "Why do you let him treat you like that? You deserve better." Say: "If you keep choosing the same type of guy, you can't be surprised by the same outcome." Don't say: "I'm sorry you're going through this, you didn't do anything wrong." Say: "You’re not a victim here. You’re choosing what you tolerate." Don't say: "Do you want to talk about it more? I don't mind staying up." Say: "It's late. Get some sleep, reset, and tomorrow act like the version of you that actually respects herself." #dating #Relationship #texting #datingcoachformen #datingtipsformen