@events_and_affairs: What do you think? is the priest in the right here or is the groom? Swapping sides for the ceremony on the day of their wedding. @ryanedwardsweddingfilms #weddingsandevents #weddingdrama #pov #weddings
Lucette, I thought we agreed you were to stand on the other side for this video... so disrespectful 😡 how dare you change your mind... even tho yes the lighting does look better ✨️😂
See how ridiculous that sounds? The priest should have ignored the change and got on with her job coz it's not a big deal!
ps. Lucette you look gorgeous, hope you feel better ♥️
2026-07-24 01:51:18
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marianne737 :
You are right Lucette. No one should be spoken to that way, especially a priest or minister. Unfortunately, if the minister is talking about tradition and the way it’s always been then traditionally she should not be at the pulpit. She is a woman women do not belong with the pulpit. That is tradition and the way it’s always been. I’m sorry but that’s the way it was. thankfully not no. I have no issues with women at the pulpit, but she’s a pot calling the kettle black.
2026-07-23 16:23:42
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Cat :
I do find it a little pot/kettle a female priest loosing there cool over something not being as traditional as it should.
2026-07-23 07:58:48
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Jennifer Leeanne :
You poor girl. Take it easy and get some rest. Take care of yourself you’re in the homestretch. I’m so excited for you. And I’m so sorry you’re not feeling well.
2026-07-23 06:33:33
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thisnurseistired :
When I was married, the priest told us that we weren't allowed to talk to each other during the ceremony or he would stop everything and not marry us!
2026-07-23 06:20:00
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Edwina Wrenn O'Connell :
there was more to this story but it didn't suit the narrative of the wedding videographer. it is plain as day the poor priest was at the end of her tether with the couple. they had a rehearsal they say before everything was discussed, changes had been made and things had been agreed to. the priest shows up at the church and more changes that weren't spoken about had been made as well as where they were standing that had already been discussed because of the lighting. the guy who filmed is a disgrace for posting she is getting so much hate for just doing her job trying to uphold the dignity of the church. the video got over 4million views and close to 4 thousand comments, she was doxed and has received so much vile hate from people who are anti religion/church/preists. a church is a place of worship it is not a pretty backdrop for a photoshoot. it deserves respect. the couple were getting a blessing in the church not the full ceremony because they were already legally married. the couple just wanted pretty photos. if they really valued the church and what it stands for they wouldn't be changing things. it's was tradition in this church for the men to stand on a certain side. this was discussed at the rehearsal they spoke about swapping sides then but agreed not to. then the morning of the wedding the photographer and videographer said no the lighting is wrong the bride won't look good and swapped sides without discussing it with the priest. I don't blame the priest for snapping she had put up with a lot before hand with the couple. the couple and wedding vendors had no respect for the church or tradition.
2026-07-23 09:19:45
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beachgirlnessa :
The video is gone now. That’s wild this priest freaked out like this. It’s outrageous
2026-07-23 10:22:07
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user2307261126217 :
I had always understood that the tradition of having the man on the left side was from medieval times when he needed his sword arm to be free to fight off other suitors. There was no religious connection at all. Since I am not a history buff, my understanding could be all wrong. But I’ve never heard a religious reason for why one person stands on a particular side.
2026-07-23 06:50:41
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Michael :
I've heard priests say wedding planners are banned from their church.
2026-07-23 06:23:29
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Stacy :
Love your videos and stories and skits!
2026-07-23 06:22:21
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Bella :
Poor thing. Those last couple of weeks are hell! At least it’s cool in Aus! Rest up.
2026-07-23 06:11:26
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Flamingo Queen :
bet the church charged them for the service...just like a venue!!!
2026-07-24 21:17:01
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Lily :
You are still beautiful. I'm sorry you're sick. That sucks at any time but especially 38 weeks pregnant really sucks. I hope you are over your cold soon and that when it's time for you to deliver your baby everything goes smoothly and your baby is healthy.
2026-07-23 06:36:42
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Jennifer Jago :
My take on this, because my father was a priest and did many weddings, was that position changes etc. were taken care of during rehearsal? if not, they stayed the way the rehearsal was because the priest or the pastor or whoever the religious person is has specific moves they have to make and it is dependent on where the bride and groom traditionally stand. so it screws them up completely. if this is not changed during rehearsal in some traditions, they wrap the hands of the bride and groom and other religious rituals are done based on where they're standing. however, no person of the cloth should ever go off like that
2026-07-23 11:54:34
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megan_breanna_ :
Was this the right tag? I didn’t see the video on the page.
2026-07-25 06:45:23
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The Shipping Lawyer 🇦🇺 :
it may be a case of the straw that broke the camels back situation. Doesn't make it right but you also don't know the conversations in the lead up. Either way it's just not a good look for the church.
2026-07-23 06:18:33
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Hellnah :
Yes what annoyed me about that video was he was being very reasonable and the priest just kept unleashing at him! Either accept the offer to swap back or stop complaining!
2026-07-23 08:45:54
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barbaraedwards97 :
i was gonna say, that baby is taking your breath away 😂
2026-07-26 05:09:01
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Nobigdeal :
Take care of yourself first. But that priest is being arrogant, and controlling. It makes no difference which side they stand.
2026-07-23 10:45:45
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mommycatnip :
As a wedding officiant (minister) I could never speak to a couple like that. She should be embarrassed!
Sending you love and good mojo for an awesomely boring birth and swift recovery from your cold (hope that translates correctly from American to Australian as a good wish!)
2026-07-23 06:45:45
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2looloo2u :
Help me here… what is the big deal the bride wants to be on the left side and the groom on the right? Tell me this is not it.
2026-07-23 19:46:58
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Katrina :
plenty of clergy from the same demonstration we're in the comments saying the priest was ott. I don't think it's controversial, she was wrong to behave that way in a house of worship at someone's wedding
2026-07-23 22:57:29
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PhotobearSam 🇨🇦 :
👏
2026-07-24 00:06:50
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witchmikey :
its not canonical its tradition
2026-07-25 22:34:08
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McCinnimom :
yeah, it's gone now.
2026-07-23 23:20:28
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