youlikemelange🙄 :
i read and read, word per word and sentence by sentence yet..to love or to be loved is never truly answered. It was more like understanding each side not answering, poets and philosophers can't answer because they can NEVER. BE. ANSWERED. It can only be understood and known for WHY they are important,not WHICH is more important. It's either validation or vulnerability. You can't force someone TO BE loved nor force someone TO love. You have to UNDERSTAND that it's either SHAPING yourself or knowing your EXISTENCE MATTERS. Waking up to being loved or loving is both a different outcome,,You can't choose when you yearn for both ""to love is to be loved"" or ""to be loved is to love"" can you?,..but does that answer the question? We all have our ways of how,why, and what we love, showing that it doesn't have an answer to a question full of different outcomes because it depends on you. In your own way of seeing love, not because of trends in tiktok like the sidewalk rule, 143 codes, Door rule or whatsoever. You don't have to change your standards just because it's trending. We all have our own standards to feel love or be loved. It wasnt really about answering,its about understanding what we want.
2026-08-22 16:37:19