@thereal_holliwood: Sometimes emotionally available people become safe places for people who never planned on becoming safe for them. They benefit from your patience, your communication, your softness, and your willingness to keep trying, while you slowly become exhausted from carrying the emotional weight for both of you. I don’t mind teaching someone how to love me. But I should not have to teach them how to be a partner. Have you ever felt like you were building the relationship while the other person was just living in it? #lgbt #lesbian #fyp #wlw #relationships

💕Tammy💕 :

Using my degree all over with no time to relax 🤦🏾‍♀️

🫧🫶🏽🤍 :

How Tf am i supposed to be excited about starting a family, yet i feel like am already raising a child.

Seitah :

I’m tireddd.. lemme be with you.. we would be great

NOSI🤍🫧 :

I feel like the lover girl in me will eventually die 😭

Sierra :

This just gonna go through one ear and out the other OR they'll say their sorry for being such a bad partner and they'll work on it only for them to do enough effort for 2 weeks and go back and you stuck in the same place

@: :

as the eldest daughter you took the words right outta my mouth .

CRO.HET1145 :

Like you made a mistake, sure. Now I have to teach you how to acknowledge your mistakes, apologize and find ways to not repeat the mistake twice. Because you in my face with "I'm sorry, I won't do it again" 😭

tae❣️ :

this is exactly why I'm single for 5 years I'm happy someone in this world feels the same

Unc_lekese :

Nikhona ?

Buina :

exactly, emotional intelligence.... teaching consideration is exhausting.

leigh :

Emotional Intelligence is important....next time just cut them off you'll find someone who matches your energy. sweet voice 😊

Barbara :

ArafaGedamara :

a guy sent me an 18mins voicenote of something like this and all I focused on was one line where he said we should have just be friends because I can't be doing this ....and I texted him understood I wish you all the best....coz tf was I gonna say

?? goth baby ??? :

Like you're always the one having conversations, trying to mend things, trying to understand from their pov even though you're hurt, when do these things get reciprocated??

Kairetu Tajiri 😎 :

You cannot teach an avoidant person consideration.

shannasays🇯🇲🇰🇳 :

I wish I could send this to her but she blocked.

Juelz Hernandez :

Thissssss! And dealing with someone who isn’t emotionally intelligent is the most draining 💯 This should easy to sit down and talk about.

PRINA :

Good boy