I’m a school psychologist and was taught the same thing. But I had a parent come in and disclose that her she was worried about her son dying by suicide because her brother died by suicide. I had lost my sister to suicide 6 months earlier and we both cried. And then we made a plan to keep her son safe. It’s been 5 years, but I hope they are doing well.
2026-07-25 13:45:46
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GoblinWhisperer :
My midwife and nurses all cried with me through two miscarriages. I will never forget how held and cared for I felt from that show of humanity. They also cried when my rainbow baby was born and lined up to hold them at every postpartum appointment. I am pro crying in front of patients 🖤
2026-07-25 13:59:55
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carolynquadrosspiers :
When I had one of my miscarriages, my OBGYN sat next to me and cried with me. I still think about how human that was.
2026-07-23 16:18:05
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user2946459897670 :
It’s a humanizing reaction. I’m not surprised she felt the same as you. I get your reticence but maybe it just makes the patients feel more seen? Humanity is never bad.
2026-07-25 09:04:07
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Latkamaven :
Showing that you are human is the most medical healing thing a provider can do.
2026-07-23 14:19:16
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Tia :
she probably appreciated that more than anything else really? no one is telling her going to be okay, basically saying all the cliché stuff after. sometimes crying with someone makes someone more comfortable.
2026-07-23 17:54:46
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CocoDemik :
1. I’m sorry for your loss. 2. Receiving empathy from medical professionals who had gone through it helped me survive mine.
2026-07-23 14:01:12
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Gia :
You showed compassion and empathy for your patient and yourself ❤️
2026-07-23 21:55:46
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Lab_Kate 59 :
We sometimes cried with some patients and families in outpatient oncology. We knew them so well and loved them
2026-07-23 22:19:52
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Glitterkut :
Validating someone's trauma helps prevent PTSD ♥️
2026-07-23 17:35:37
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user7455919096799 :
Bc you’re a human being first. With a rational fear of nurses.
2026-07-23 13:23:33
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IDPZ123 :
We should definitely have more healthcare providers that are able and willing to express their humanity more freely
2026-07-23 18:01:10
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🧡Mrs.Bastian🧡 :
As a nurse, you can cry in front of me. I won’t hug you because I’m an introvert that doesn’t like hugs, but I would say comforting things 😅
2026-07-23 14:45:28
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Jesus :
The women who kept my miscarriage from taking me with them cried at the state I was in. I kept apologizing for bothering them and they made me feel like I wasn't the problem
2026-07-23 16:04:48
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poohetpiglet :
I'm so sorry for your loss. As for the patient, sometimes medical staff (understandably so) can seem robotic and emotionless with little empathy, so maybe it was refreshing.. Probably not the right word here, but you know what I mean
2026-07-23 15:02:12
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alicialarkin46 :
I love your content
2026-07-23 13:32:08
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Mercedes Miller :
when I had my two miscarriages the thing that helped me most was knowing that I wasn't alone so this would have comforted me so much
2026-07-24 00:26:06
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It's Nicole Not Amy :
Thank you for being human. There are already too many NPC healthcare providers.
2026-07-23 14:03:17
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aliciacalacci15 :
I have found that patients and families appreciate professionalism, they also appreciate you being human and treating everyone as an individual.
2026-07-23 16:01:01
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Bedazzledcandy :
Sometimes we all just need that human connection/ validation and it’s so easy to forget that when you’re in the medical field. We get lost in MRNs and Epic work flows and just use the automated portal and we loose site of the human beings behind that
2026-07-23 13:51:19
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indica_arie21 :
You are truly doing the work of God. THANK YOU. Sending you love and light Mamas.
2026-07-24 01:14:43
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Alookinthewindow :
my doctor was a total cunt when I lost my baby.. I'm sure you're amazing
2026-07-23 14:30:26
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Eblis :
💔♥️♥️
2026-07-23 21:27:13
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