Welcome to womanhood. It's a very bumpy ride. Dress for you. It doesn't matter what the underlying reasons are. Don't give patriarchy that power. If if feels good to you in the moment do it. Give patriarchy the middle finger and dress how you want inspite / in spite of it.
2026-07-23 15:31:22
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DriveThruAdobo :
Damn that’s a million dollar question!
2026-07-23 13:57:11
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Hypatia 🍁 :
This is so real. Like I obsessively shave everything BUT my underarms.
2026-07-25 01:04:35
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poinsettiajustamom :
I love women who ask these questions.
2026-07-23 20:56:44
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Grace Powers 🏳️⚧️ :
If something makes you happy that’s the only thing that matters.
2026-07-25 11:48:45
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lilawatt hour :
Since I also feel this way as a cis woman, I can't imagine how amplified that must be for trans women. For what it's worth, every time I see one of your videos I always think, "She has SUCH cool style!"
2026-07-24 02:47:07
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Jon :
It’s hard because it’s like a second puberty with all the awkwardness and figuring things out but you’re not allowed to experience it.
2026-07-24 03:38:00
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1FamBam :
And that shouldn’t even matter. You like it. It doesn’t harm anyone. Proceed with a life you love. 💕
2026-07-25 13:48:19
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CourtJesster :
Mmmmnope. It all belongs to me. I love my long skirts and makeup and dresses and my self expression and wouldnt trade any of it for the world. Stop doubting, and make it your own. "ITS YOUR POWER, NOT HIS"
2026-07-24 23:23:25
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kathybaldwin_finally :
Yes I struggle with this thought as well. But damn it feels so good to feel pretty. 🇨🇦🇨🇦
2026-07-23 14:19:04
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狼Kitsune :
Yeah. I just always want to look pretty. Always have. I was pretty pre egg crack. I just enjoy euphoria while it’s here cuz dysphoria works double shifts!!!
2026-07-25 04:21:16
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3cats11legs :
Really looking forward to when just leggings and a t-shirt feels right. Until then it's cute dresses, heels, wigs and makeup ever day❤️
2026-07-23 15:40:14
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Victoria :
Patriarchy fucking sucks! I wish you joy and play figuring yourself out 💚
2026-07-23 21:46:33
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martitabobita :
Both can be true, and it's OK. You have a right to feel that way regardless of our messed up patriarchal society. ✌️
2026-07-23 21:05:46
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Nova :
I think you should ignore all negative thoughts and just dress however you want 😊
2026-07-24 07:06:43
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❌️Lea-Elyzabeth🇨🇦🏳️🌈 :
I do hope you are able to tease that out...because that is absolutely valid...
I myself found myself questioning this in my 30s. As a feminist in every sense I was at one time, refusing to wear certain clothing articles for that very reason.
The conclusion I came to is that as long as I loved what I was wearing, then it had nothing to do with the patriarchy. It allowed me to choose my clothing mindfully. I ensured I loved each piece, that it fit my personality and comfort style, and that it was never something that was influenced by anyone of anything.
Now, in my 50s, choosing clothing comes very naturally because I have been intentionally choosing for so long.
So, just make sure you love what you are wearing...that does not allow for anyone to have a say!💗
2026-07-23 14:19:40
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not_a_cat🇨🇦 :
I think about this all the time
2026-07-23 15:53:06
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Deb :
I’m not saying it’s the same thing at all. I’m not down thing you’re feeling, but what I do want to say to you is, just do it dress the way you want , and do what you want at all times ! At every stage of life people judge you anyway! I’m 60 years old and believe me if I’m dressed too young or dressed too revealing, people judge. If I’m out dancing on the street people are judging. If I swear like a trucker people are judging . Don’t get caught up in that. Don’t ever dummy yourself down or make yourself smaller to fit in at any time of your life.❤️
2026-07-23 22:54:36
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Anne💫Awakening🌟we are 0ne🌍 :
I’m trying so hard to unlearn so much. Thanks for the stretch
2026-07-24 01:27:25
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Anne💫Awakening🌟we are 0ne🌍 :
Damn girl 🥹
2026-07-24 01:26:20
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StregaSavy :
this is my everyday battle babe. at the end of the day, I dress how I want to look and put on what makes me smile the biggest. that feels like a small act of rebellion every day💜🥰
2026-07-23 15:03:58
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KimX :
I just let my mood dictate how I am going to dress that day because some days are more feminine some days or not so feminine
2026-07-24 02:13:29
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Abby Journey :
I feel that girl 😏
2026-07-23 14:38:34
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Hesperides.Bell :
after reading this, I very suddenly need to take a step back and reevaluate some things.
2026-07-24 13:47:59
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jonesy_ysenoj :
I'm actually quite thankful to be alive in a time when trans/queer folks are more visible. I grew up in/around the queer community when visibility and acceptance wasn't quite what it is today so I was lucky there, too. It's taught me so much about gender and sexual fluidity and encouraged questioning things like this about myself as a cis het woman.
2026-07-23 23:40:56
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