@topeadenugaofficial: One of the biggest mistakes parents make is expecting children to think and behave like adults. Children will make mistakes. They’ll spill things, forget instructions, ask too many questions, and test boundaries. That’s part of growing up. Correct serious issues firmly, but don’t overreact to childish behaviour. Save your strongest correction for character issues like lying, stealing, or hurting others, not every small mistake. And here’s something every parent should remember: don’t correct your child more than you encourage them. Correction shapes behaviour, but encouragement shapes identity. If all your child hears is criticism, they’ll eventually believe they’re never good enough. Celebrate their effort, notice their progress, and tell them when they’ve done well. Children need discipline, but they also need affirmation. Raise children who are confident enough to grow, not afraid to make mistakes. Let children be children while patiently teaching them how to become responsible adults.#Parenting #children
Tope Adenuga
Region: NG
Thursday 23 July 2026 15:20:34 GMT
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Chances :
Yeah you right. My only challenge is the example you gave, "going to the fridge to pick an apple without asking". Wouldn't that in a way birth stealing?
2026-08-10 14:26:49
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Clovis Ndang🇨🇲 🇧🇪 🇨🇦 🇧 :
which kids do get 90% right 🤣
2026-08-11 22:12:37
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Debbie :
I also love to mention to parents about we regulating our emotions as well. Most of our corrections are out of how we are frustrated or stressed
2026-07-24 16:05:24
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Frozen Food In Lusada/Igbesa. :
My daughter at 14 months threw my phone inside water while I left her on a video call with her dad I came back pick my phone and didn’t react,few moments later some guys that came to work for says they’re surprised I didn’t shout at her or spank am like she’s just a year old
2026-07-31 21:34:01
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Rommy :
Thank youuuuuuuuu. This is for me
2026-07-28 07:22:13
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Scent by Ayoka :
This is my parent when I was small 🥺 i will work from morning till evening there won’t be any motivation but small mistake from they will overreact
2026-07-26 05:48:46
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monjolaanuoluwa :
Correction changes behaviour Encouragement change identity
2026-07-27 07:35:00
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Kafayat | The EnglishCafe :
This is so apt!
2026-07-24 09:55:37
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Blessing Okonkwo :
thanks sir 🙏
2026-07-23 19:38:01
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feyisayofola :
God bless you
2026-07-24 14:03:06
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Kingjbadmus77 :
May Allah grant you more wisdom.
Thank you for your Service 💯
2026-07-26 17:28:52
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Honeycomb foods and grills :
Thank you 😊
2026-07-24 08:52:28
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Mamacita💦💫💫 :
I never regret following you sir I learned a lot from your lectures..
2026-07-26 08:28:26
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epolawulot :
my little madam is always going to my wardrobe to wear my clothes. I don tire
2026-07-24 10:29:25
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Page & Play Pals :
Thanks
2026-07-24 08:23:25
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Etooluwa ❤️❣️ :
Trying to learn a lot from your videos being a teacher.
Thank you 🙏
2026-07-23 15:28:13
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willy kay :
let children be children is a word i use well
2026-07-23 15:38:32
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Chef_rik :
God bless you
2026-07-23 19:16:03
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Etooluwa ❤️❣️ :
Try
2026-07-23 15:27:22
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chi_chi :
It’s well thank u🥰
2026-07-30 10:26:05
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dianaveronica0011 :
I posted something similar days ago on my Facebook page. This is a confirmation or validation
Thanks for sharing your pov
2026-08-06 19:30:32
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Beemzzytee28 :
Thanks and God bless you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-08-04 19:23:24
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💛 DADDY_ZOE 💛 :
my wife... come n hear o 😂 I don dey talk about these things since
2026-08-03 07:53:05
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Bioluwatifè :
thank you sir, you made me feel guilty tho😔 but I understand better now🤗. shey you get😁
2026-07-30 11:34:36
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tiwatope💖🥰 :
I do encourage more than correction and my kids are doing so well 🥰🥰
2026-08-10 08:45:52
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