@topeadenugaofficial: One of the biggest mistakes parents make is expecting children to think and behave like adults. Children will make mistakes. They’ll spill things, forget instructions, ask too many questions, and test boundaries. That’s part of growing up. Correct serious issues firmly, but don’t overreact to childish behaviour. Save your strongest correction for character issues like lying, stealing, or hurting others, not every small mistake. And here’s something every parent should remember: don’t correct your child more than you encourage them. Correction shapes behaviour, but encouragement shapes identity. If all your child hears is criticism, they’ll eventually believe they’re never good enough. Celebrate their effort, notice their progress, and tell them when they’ve done well. Children need discipline, but they also need affirmation. Raise children who are confident enough to grow, not afraid to make mistakes. Let children be children while patiently teaching them how to become responsible adults.#Parenting #children

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chances_123
Chances :
Yeah you right. My only challenge is the example you gave, "going to the fridge to pick an apple without asking". Wouldn't that in a way birth stealing?
2026-08-10 14:26:49
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clovisndang
Clovis Ndang🇨🇲 🇧🇪 🇨🇦 🇧 :
which kids do get 90% right 🤣
2026-08-11 22:12:37
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selfimprovementconvos
Debbie :
I also love to mention to parents about we regulating our emotions as well. Most of our corrections are out of how we are frustrated or stressed
2026-07-24 16:05:24
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frozen.food.in.lu
Frozen Food In Lusada/Igbesa. :
My daughter at 14 months threw my phone inside water while I left her on a video call with her dad I came back pick my phone and didn’t react,few moments later some guys that came to work for says they’re surprised I didn’t shout at her or spank am like she’s just a year old
2026-07-31 21:34:01
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morenikemoore05
Rommy :
Thank youuuuuuuuu. This is for me
2026-07-28 07:22:13
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idayatbabalola0
Scent by Ayoka :
This is my parent when I was small 🥺 i will work from morning till evening there won’t be any motivation but small mistake from they will overreact
2026-07-26 05:48:46
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monjolaanuoluwa
monjolaanuoluwa :
Correction changes behaviour Encouragement change identity
2026-07-27 07:35:00
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the.englishcafe
Kafayat | The EnglishCafe :
This is so apt!
2026-07-24 09:55:37
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user6371456628850
Blessing Okonkwo :
thanks sir 🙏
2026-07-23 19:38:01
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pholarbabe
feyisayofola :
God bless you
2026-07-24 14:03:06
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kingjbadmus77
Kingjbadmus77 :
May Allah grant you more wisdom. Thank you for your Service 💯
2026-07-26 17:28:52
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honeycombdeliciousfoods
Honeycomb foods and grills :
Thank you 😊
2026-07-24 08:52:28
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yusufnafisatyetunde
Mamacita💦💫💫 :
I never regret following you sir I learned a lot from your lectures..
2026-07-26 08:28:26
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epolawulot
epolawulot :
my little madam is always going to my wardrobe to wear my clothes. I don tire
2026-07-24 10:29:25
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page_play_pals
Page & Play Pals :
Thanks
2026-07-24 08:23:25
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etooluwa514
Etooluwa ❤️❣️ :
Trying to learn a lot from your videos being a teacher. Thank you 🙏
2026-07-23 15:28:13
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olawalekazim
willy kay :
let children be children is a word i use well
2026-07-23 15:38:32
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chef_rik
Chef_rik :
God bless you
2026-07-23 19:16:03
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etooluwa514
Etooluwa ❤️❣️ :
Try
2026-07-23 15:27:22
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amilove310
chi_chi :
It’s well thank u🥰
2026-07-30 10:26:05
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dianaveronica0011
dianaveronica0011 :
I posted something similar days ago on my Facebook page. This is a confirmation or validation Thanks for sharing your pov
2026-08-06 19:30:32
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beemzzytee028
Beemzzytee28 :
Thanks and God bless you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-08-04 19:23:24
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___massive24
💛 DADDY_ZOE 💛 :
my wife... come n hear o 😂 I don dey talk about these things since
2026-08-03 07:53:05
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enioluwatife
Bioluwatifè :
thank you sir, you made me feel guilty tho😔 but I understand better now🤗. shey you get😁
2026-07-30 11:34:36
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flowsnow_empire
tiwatope💖🥰 :
I do encourage more than correction and my kids are doing so well 🥰🥰
2026-08-10 08:45:52
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