@hydenoutloud: Red Flags!! Here are mine… #dating #datingadvice #single #relationships #oklahoma

for Jennifer :

he is a huge red flag

Michele :

You just might be the red flag 😳🚩 if being nice is you’re only requirement for marriage

NoirtjeWil Van de Vuurst :

Take a cat.

kate :

🚩 Will ask “what if?” until a simple conversation becomes a philosophical debate. 🚩 Roasts people as a love language, but expects them to understand it’s affectionate. 🚩 Has 37 hobbies in rotation and finishes… about 8 of them.

julie :

Says "I'm fine" and expects you to know they're not. Will spend 20 minutes choosing where to eat and then say, "I'm good with anything." Accidentally psychoanalyzes people for fun. Has a camera roll full of photos that are almost perfect but not quite.

Todd :

Well my red flag is funny asf

boomersoonerbaby :

I'm just seeing what's out there. Too analytical. Trying to seem low maintenance. Note: I'm not on dating profiles & I don't think I'm high maintenance.

Mel V :

Well that was enlightening!! Why cant my chat gbt be a real person , as he's the only one I trust!!!

debydonna :

nooo it's a red cape

SamS :

Red flags: I ask too many hypothetical questions, overanalyze texts, appreciate sarcasm a little too much, and somehow turn every random conversation into a personality assessment. Looking for someone who can laugh at themselves and isn't afraid of honest conversations.😳

thelynnfarr :

Big Loud Mike :

Copy and paste in ChatGPT…. If I had red flags stated on my dating profile bio, what would mine say?

🌺LalaLiliLulu🌺 :

That’s a cool list, Mike. I appreciate your candor. For a minute there I thought you were describing me 😂

Charlie :

My Red Flag is I work Remotely and don’t keep in contact with who I am texting 😂

Marie2002 :

u r young at heart. 😁

Candi Smithson :

My kids will always come first. • I have high standards and zero patience for excuses. • I’ll call you on your BS. • I disappear on random adventures—from camping in the middle of nowhere to hopping on a plane to Europe. • I don’t chase people, beg for attention, or settle for less than I deserve. If that scares you… we’re probably not a match anyway. 🚩✈️🏕️

Missy :

Overthinking dating bahahahaha you got attacked

Marie2002 :

🤗🤗

Missy :

😂😂😂😂

Christie❌ :

🚩 Researches everything. Whether it’s trucks, retirement, refrigerators, or homicide investigations, you’re going to know the facts before making a decision. 🚩 Likes quality over flashy. You seem drawn to dependable brands and things that last rather than chasing trends. 🚩 High standards. You ask a lot of questions because you want to make good decisions. Someone who is lazy or inconsistent probably won’t be a good match. 🚩 Grandkids are a priority. “Kiki” isn’t just a nickname—it’s part of who you are. Anyone dating you needs to understand family matters. On the flip side, your green flags probably outweigh those: * Stable career. * Hardworking. * Financially honest. * Family-oriented. * Curious and enjoys learning. * Doesn’t play games—you tend to ask direct questions and appreciate straightforward answers.

Amanda :

🚩 Will analyze your text response time for exactly 7 seconds before reminding myself you’re probably just busy. 🚩 Has strong opinions about emotional maturity and can spot avoidant behavior from a mile away. 🚩 If your intentions don’t match your words, you’ll be politely but efficiently shown the exit. 🚩 Can go from executive professionalism to yelling at an OU or Thunder game in under 30 seconds. 🚩 Will absolutely judge your concert etiquette if you try to leave before the encore. 🚩 Believes “I’m not ready for a relationship” usually means “I’m not ready for one with you.” 🚩 Has a master’s degree and will accidentally turn casual conversations into strategic planning sessions. 🚩 Will ask thoughtful questions because I’m genuinely trying to figure out who you are—not because I’m interrogating you. (It can feel similar.) 🚩 Loves hard, but expects consistency. Effort is attractive. Mixed signals are not. 🚩 Has been ghosted enough times that communication has become very, very attractive.

Missy :

🚩 Red Flags * Will accidentally turn our first date into a leadership retreat. * Asks questions like, “What was your intention there?” and actually expects an answer. * Can smell inconsistency from three counties away. * Will notice your patterns before you do. * Doesn’t need you. Wants you. * Looking for a partner, not a project. * Has built businesses, communities, and leaders. If you want someone to entertain you 24/7, keep scrolling. * Emotional intelligence is attractive. Emotional avoidance is not. * Will believe your behavior over your words. Every. Single. Time.