@anelenoroita: 1. Your child should never be used as a weapon during conflicts or disagreements. 2. Separate your feelings about your ex from your role as a parent. 3. Don’t make your child choose sides. 4. Communicate about the child, not the past relationship or playing the blame game. 5. Never speak badly about the other parent in front of your child. 6. Don’t judge them because you once loved or cared about them. 7. Respect each other’s parenting role or style, even when you disagree. 8. Keep promises to your child, trust is built through consistency. 9. Don’t let new relationships affect or create unnecessary conflict with co-parenting. 10. Always remember that your child did not choose the breakup, but they deserve both parents’ love. Final Thought: “A child does not need perfect parents. They need parents who are mature enough to put their child’s emotional safety and physical health before their personal disagreements.” #Coparenting #ParentingAdvice #SingleParents #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence
We don’t talk, he is not present emotionally & physically. He sends money when he want to.
2026-07-27 07:31:47
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LescoLes :
I live with the kids full time... he pay school fees and transport every month but now he's angry I changed kids 2 my surname coz when they married me the payed 4de kids too
2026-07-28 18:52:40
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Aluwani Thekgo :
Co-parenting is easier when both parents has healed from the break up and are both happily in relationships. otherwise the one o Go’wang will always find ways of causing some drama 🤞🏽.
2026-07-27 13:33:06
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Itumeleng :
Can i give you his numbers and please tell him that
when he left me he said "if this child is a girl, it's not mine"
two years back he came back and asked for DNA i didn't refuse ( we did it, it came out positive) he disappeared then this year early January came back again and said we must get back together, i refused and said he must only come for his child not me den his answer was "if we don't fix things, i am not supporting the child" den left again but when he's drunk he has the audacity to come to my place and swear at me "Sefebe , sa go nkgana ka ngwana" everyone knowns me as the bitter baby mama but it's fine
i am raising my Daughter with the help of my family and by God's Grace
2026-07-24 16:37:17
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mandie06 :
We are co-parenting very well. Last night we were gossiping abt our son🤣🤣🤣. We are both at peace and now we reached a stage were we can appreciate each other's contribution and love our son has for both of us.
2026-07-24 05:38:04
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nikiwemma :
we are doing nothing. I am just raising my child alone with peace
2026-07-23 20:54:48
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Look :
I have 3 daughters with a narcissist ex. After many fights in court over maintenance and access, I walked away. Supported my kids by myself. He has not showed up since 2017. My eldest is a software engineer, second is at a fashion design school. Both now in Europe. My last is at a private high school. It’s very PEACEFUL without the narcissist!
2026-07-25 05:30:03
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Masego Lenkoe :
he took me to court saying I'm refusing him to see his child,now he disappeared again and my poor child keeps asking about him
it hurts seeing my baby sad😩
2026-07-28 07:39:36
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Toni Thole :
My ex-husband and I are doing a great job co-parenting. He covers medical expenses and school fees for the boy and girl we are raising. They live with me full-time, and he takes them when he wants to. We both go to sporting events and school awards ceremonies.
I currently have an 8-month-old boy from my second marriage. My new husband and I share a home, and they are acquainted. Despite his obvious narcissism, he prioritizes his children, and our friendship is so harmonious. 💛
2026-07-28 06:06:48
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Cold Hard Truth📌 :
This is the very reason why I'll NEVER have kids. I don't have the strength for all the drama.
2026-07-27 04:56:16
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Thandolakhe Mathibela :
We barely talk, His just an ATM and its honestly fine, I haven’t healed so talking to him would break me even more.
2026-07-24 15:12:52
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Nosy :
Co parenting very well🥰, he is paying lobola for his lovely girlfriend today and I bought my kids clothes they are there celebrating with their dad ♥️
2026-07-25 15:49:27
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maboity :
he took away the kids from me it's been 10yrs he doesn't allow me to see my kids im depressed 😭😭😭
2026-07-26 13:35:19
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🥰Juju☺️Pooe :
I’m raising my child on my own nd it’s bloody hard 😥
2026-07-23 22:18:02
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Msiyana :
I am trying to build a relationship with my son but she make things difficult, I take care of him financially that ain't enough .
I want to bond with my son ,I want him to grow up knowing that his dad loves him.Every time I ask to see him ,she make excuses ...the last time I saw him a month ago.He cried so much when I dropped him .He was happy to be with me .My wish is to see him every holiday and take him out ...play with him.He can know his little sister .Receive the same love I give to his little sister .
2026-07-26 23:18:35
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Mrs Smith 001 :
The comment section is more painful🥹🥹😭😭😭,may God protect,heal and strengthen all single parents 🙏🙏🙏
2026-07-25 04:40:46
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ShortGun🔥 :
God's been so good to me. Got poisoned in 2023,had to stop working. Been sick for almost 4 years,still not well enough to work. Baby daddy has his own family now. Our son is 8 years in a private school, he pays school fees, transport, buys clothes he never complains. I thank God for that 🙏
2026-07-25 22:30:02
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Phindile Khoza Mabon :
I block everything that doesn’t give me peace. I don’t even remember the last time I spoke with that guy😂😂
2026-07-25 18:46:09
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Thulisile❤️😍😘 :
I'm not co-parenting and not fighting with anyone, just raising my kids
2026-07-24 18:25:23
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Smangele Ndawo :
Blocked him on whatsapp last year April after he forgot his Son's birthday for the 7th time
Didn't block his calls but he has never called in over a year me and my Son we good can't keep begging a grown man to love his child.
2026-07-24 12:25:09
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VavaLebatho :
Reading some of the comments you realise that some made kids with boys and not men.
In the same light you see how hurt some sisters are!The pain in their text tells you a lot.
Breaking up with the mother of one's child does not mean you broke up with the child.
Him leaving you doesn't mean you should cut him off from his child.
Our kids deserve better!
2026-07-25 02:42:33
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jessica016 :
but no one talks about the pain that we carry while co-parenting it's not easy
2026-07-24 17:09:13
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Jenni :
Am trying to involve him but guy doesn't get it. i have given up
2026-07-24 05:07:45
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Phumudzo Ramaano :
raising my kids without his support, and I just make peace with myself
2026-07-24 17:26:49
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