@projectblankk: Dating an avoidant can leave you questioning your own sanity. Sometimes you spend so long trying to make the relationship work that your reactions get labeled as the problem instead of what caused them. Healthy relationships shouldn’t make you feel like you’re constantly fighting to be loved. Question: Do avoidants create toxic relationships, or do they just expose them? 👇 #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #fyp

Olga Rosu :

purple rain 🔥🔝

Haley R :

I’m convinced the exes he said were drama and crazy were neither

Summor :

Its so disgusting. as much as I love him, Ill never look at him the same. broke up with him only for him to flip it around and act like he broke up with me. wtf?

Martineza91 :

I NEVER want to come across an avoidant again.

✡︎ 𓆩 𝑰𝑺𝑹𝑨𝑬𝑳 𓆪 ✡︎ :

If your brain turns every small problem into ten new problems, Clara Hartley’s anxiety quiz might help you recognize why that keeps happening. It helped me so much! ❤️

❤︎₊ ⊹ Priscilla ₊ ⊹ ❤︎ :

I’ve never been such an angry, anxious, heart palpitations type of person before 😞

la_guera_galindo :

It’s a whole mind fuck!!!

Johnwicksdog00 :

I went on antidepressants, fixed my credit, went sober, fixed my teeth and bought a house but my god I felt like the biggest POS on earth

clarakpop16 :

You mean respond not react bc that’s what he does. He actually just contact me back 2 days ago saying he wants to try again. Neither of us wanted it to end at all and no cheating was involved. But my fam and himself don’t really feel comfortable with each other

P.S. Bartlett ❤️📚👩‍💻 :

How about this for a response to confrontation? “You hurt my feelings.” Hello? You have feelings???

Brookelynne2001 :

They are masters at changing the narrative. Working hard to get back to being my calm self.

Azzy :

But once you detach you just dgaf anymore!

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BirdzFlyinHighh🕊️ :

I cannot keep doing this to myself. God did not create me to live this miserably due to a grown man that can’t handle his emotions. We all have choices to make. He made his and I’m making mine. I want to live my life to the fullest now.

nathan 🐺🐺 :

literally tried to communicate with her as she’s the one being defensive and when i say im done w her she’s putting it on me?!?

Lenora Watson :

Tried to dim my light and almost did 😭 but I’m a Scorpio lol, it took time but I recovered from it

Jacobnomad :

didn't let the first ruin me won't let the second might just take a bit longer to heal but I'll be alright

Melissa Risdon :

Don’t let an avoidant take your peace they are there to teach you to stop avoiding your inner wisdom. What if they crossed your path bc you need to stop avoiding something? 🤷‍♀️🙏❤️

Ana Quiroz :

Facts

🌵🌻TEXASGIRL71🌻🌵 :

Its_meAlly :

Avoidant here, we're sorry.

Phøenix :

thats the unfortunate truth

Grayson :

OH MY GOD SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS

LosLaureles22 :

Or call us “melodramatic “ for feeling the pain they cause in our core 😔