You rewired her. You'll never get the version you had before the betrayal. Not only do you have to adapt to this new version but so does she. She has to relearn herself, the version she didnt ask for. The version that abruptly showed up without warning. Things can always seem like they're good because we're good at masking our true feelings but deep inside she thinks about that betrayal more than you know. She could be washing dishes then boom (flashback to the day she found out you weren't faithful). Driving down the highway (flashback), watching a movie (flashback), eating dinner (flashback), it doesn't go away. Sometimes forgiving is so much easier than forgetting. The work you will have to do on yourself to be a better man will never equate to the work you MADE her have to do on herself. She has to learn how to trust you again all while repairing herself. Be gentle with her or let her go
2026-07-26 03:33:30
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🏳️🌈Kisses_Like_Silk🏳️🌈 :
It’s so hard to FORGET! I don’t think people consider the little things that bring you back to that moment of betrayal. For awhile I couldn’t hear names that was the same as the girl, I couldn’t listen to the song that was playing when I found things out without getting flashbacks, etc. the list is endless because it’s more to it than people realize
2026-07-25 11:41:51
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Kinnedi B :
Going through betrayal with a person you love literally changes your whole life and thought process
2026-07-25 17:27:59
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key20201 :
Going through this now. My whole nervous system is messed up and he doesn’t understand that I feel crazy and don’t want to be this way. He decided he wants the relationship but doesn’t want to learn to communicate effectively. No grace is given to me when I spaz out but I literally feel uncontrollable when it happens.
2026-07-25 01:17:24
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Rickien0lak3 :
Men think it’s so easy man, I’m traumatized
2026-07-25 21:28:03
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LaTiesha | Rebuilding Marriage :
It actually took me 2-3 years to feel safe again. Fortunately my husband understood he had to sit in it no matter how uncomfortable it was for him. He understood this was my timeline. During that time if I needed over communication he did that. If I needed reassurance he did that. If I called more frequent he answered. He just understood the work that needed to be done. The betrayer has to make their partner feel safe again and it takes time and work. Marriage is hard work it’s not for impatient people.
2026-07-25 11:48:04
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Decia🫧🩷,CST :
Being consistent with not cheating not stopping for a couple of months then doing it again is not being consistent men don’t get that
2026-07-25 12:42:20
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MJ's PYT :
"you can't talk your way out of a problem you behaved yourself into" - Steven Covey
2026-07-25 15:43:19
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Patricia :
It’s beautiful to see a man change and evolve
2026-07-25 01:43:16
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Regina Bell :
but they play victim instead of holding their end of the bargain
2026-07-25 02:54:25
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kaymarlene_ :
Takes lots of communication and prayer but God is able once we surrender all to him 🙌🏽
2026-08-02 03:59:45
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appleuser88426716 :
It’s not the same after being cheated on
2026-07-25 15:19:23
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47isafelon :
atleast your honest about everything...some men only want to do half truths
2026-07-24 19:25:20
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Toonami_Mommy :
Would yall wanna hear allat if ya girl cheated on you? Lmao
2026-07-25 19:45:23
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CJ :
Thank yall for all the support and advice
2026-08-04 11:14:32
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nae_657 :
Being betrayed by someone you truly loved literally changes you. It changes they way you think, the way you look at yourself. You constantly feel like an option rather than a priority. It truly hurts to the core, it's not something easy to get over and there's always going to be doubt, cause if they did it once what will stop them next time
2026-07-26 03:25:16
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𝓣𝓪𝓼𝓱𝓪 :
Well said! The problem is most men don’t even want to own up to their mistakes and when they do they think they can do right for a little bit of time and you’re just supposed to trust them again. But in reality they need to put just as much effort in giving you the reassurance that you need to heal as they did covering up the lies. Men have the mentality of “I don’t have to prove anything to you” while you’re an open book to them. Then act like you’re hard to deal with because you have questions. It’s exhausting.
2026-07-24 23:29:14
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Monserrat💋 :
Thank you for changing on behalf of you and for your wife🙏🏻
2026-07-24 21:48:05
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Thatgirlwy 🇩🇲🇧🇸 :
If my partner cheats on me I’m leaving. The only way I can heal is away from them. I will never heal with them in my presence. I would be a nightmare for that person it takes a lot for me to trust ppl already.
2026-07-25 14:48:17
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Adriana and Archie :
It’s honestly so traumatizing. Your entire nervous system gets shot… I wouldn’t wish that type of pain on my worst enemy.
2026-07-25 22:49:02
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Lins :
It’s just easier to leave. Untrustworthy people are untrustworthy people. Their character never changes for the better
2026-07-26 02:33:55
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Sexyastaurus 🫣 :
Its is a good thing to see change in your man but when you remember everything little thing that person did to you its like ptsd…
2026-07-25 19:25:15
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