@healingwithemilyg: My relationships improved when I stopped asking who someone could become and started asking who they’ve consistently shown themselves to be. This doesn’t always mean that you have to go no contact, but it does mean that you can adjust your expectations. #cptsd #traumarecovery #attachmentissues #HealingJourney #childhoodtrauma

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expeoplepleaserrr
susanaismo :
The beauty and the beast syndrome
2026-07-23 23:06:47
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doobieeeeeee2
Flytebaby :
Is this play about me
2026-08-22 18:12:49
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mjtalks7
Malik :
Oh this is abt me 😭
2026-07-23 23:34:35
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kat.isreadingg
kat.isreadingg :
It's constantly restarting the grief cycle as u get older after each bout of hope that they can change
2026-07-24 00:44:15
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brinbeans
Sabrina :
how dare u. I haven’t finished but how dare u
2026-07-24 00:34:28
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cornfusedsnow
CornfusedSnow :
the opposite can be almost as bad. every time a friend even slightly fucks up, my brain will assume malicious intent and will go over it again and again until i resent them. it creates emotional distance to protect me from getting hurt, even with generally very good and kind people. conflict is necessary for healthy relationships and because i grew up in a home where every problem was never solved and bringing it up made everything worse, i keep assuming its impossible to solve any emotional problem in my relationships.
2026-07-25 05:22:35
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limpidlabyrinths
Britts B-Roll :
oh……… already having a pretty rough day too tbh
2026-07-24 21:27:17
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hidinginmytreehouse
lighthouse keeper :
I felt like if I could just meet my parents’ needs, they’d finally be ok and could then meet mine (because I assumed benevolent intent).
2026-07-25 13:13:05
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kikisdeliveryservice92
Kiki :
Damn this me. My dad told me he is starting therapy and I inspired him because I’ve been in therapy so long. That’s good and all, but I’m like 😑😑😑 why do you think I’ve been in therapy so long dad?????
2026-07-24 12:24:04
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jjsscc1
Basil 😩 :
Hold my hand first next time
2026-07-24 19:03:06
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shainapunim
Marcus Aurelius’ Baby Mama :
I think a lot of neglected people grieve toxic relationships and when we get to the bargaining phase of that grief, we double back to harmful people because of this, hoping we can change the outcome
2026-07-23 23:57:44
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vineofconsciousness
VineofConsciousness :
Ya, there comes a point when I realized no matter how much effort I put in it was never enough for people that were never going to change in the first place… it was never my fault nor my responsibility to hold everything together
2026-07-24 00:19:09
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haylees.minis
✨️Haylees Horses✨️ :
I left for 6 years, went back, and within a year all the work id done to better myself had been undone.
2026-07-23 23:58:12
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beyoutifulqueen77
Northernlight3397 :
What are somatic ways to rewire
2026-07-25 22:47:53
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officialpollinator
officialpollinator :
Ugh I needed this video
2026-07-24 00:22:58
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steven.mcgrogan
Steven Mcgrogan :
We think we become the batman. With enough time, effort, and information we can prepare enough to solve it.
2026-07-24 05:32:43
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lunarae625
Talkkngfeet :
I grew up with this and now I worry 24/7 that im doing this to my child. Then I worry aswell that im being too loving. its really hard idk how to parent tbh.
2026-07-27 04:30:17
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manah.sheikh
manah.sheikh :
Jesus yep.
2026-07-23 21:49:58
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user4091184261423
charliesummer :
Oof
2026-08-11 00:35:25
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a64dc9b1-b80f-4618-824b-6fd397 :
My dating history in a nutshell:
2026-07-26 09:54:52
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kickstartmyfartz
Alyssa Rae ✨ :
Me finally figuring this out at 35:
2026-08-21 23:47:32
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shmally96
shmally96 :
I was hoping they'd grow up and apologize, my bad 😅
2026-07-26 03:34:20
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