@notforsaledanyel: #spousalparentification #motherwound #motherdaughter

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a.mashae
a.mashae :
How about being the man of the house WITH a man in the house 😭😩 resentfullll
2026-07-24 03:34:02
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yacocoamilk
⊹ ִֶָ꒰აyacocoamilk໒꒱ ִֶָ⊹ :
been exhausted since I was 10 😮‍💨
2026-07-23 22:55:22
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suprabby
user4315890195598 :
Do I get bonus points if both my mom AND dad did this? 🥲
2026-07-25 02:05:52
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yolzxo
Yolanda 🌟 :
That part. My mom relies on me for so much. She literally turns her brain off with me because she thinks I can do it better. I have to create strong boundaries with her now which involves me saying no a lot, telling her to do it herself or look it up and calling her out. it's horrible honestly and exhausting. The worst part is when you live with them, and an adult and it's hard to differentiate between being supportive vs being that surrogate for her.
2026-07-24 14:38:33
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aliyahhoodoo
AliyahHoodoo :
My mom disclosed way too much personal information about her intimate partners. I always felt like she was grooming me while simultaneously testing me to see if I was competition for her.
2026-07-24 02:43:15
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baileygal
Bailey :
My mom just recently admitted to me that she KNEW she was putting these ridiculous responsibilities on me but that she felt like it “wasn’t fair to her” that she had to raise us alone. Gotcha… guess I didn’t deserve any fairness either…
2026-07-24 17:52:33
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aquarian._.cos
Kiara 💜 :
My experience with this was actually my father venting to me about my stepmom. We ended up having a falling out, and I sided with my stepmom. Now she relies on me to take my father’s place in a way. She’s leaning a lot on me and my siblings because of the fallout. I hope my parents can heal and get better, but it can be very tiring being a secret third party involuntarily
2026-07-25 01:12:52
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_pepper_j4ck
✨Pepper_J4ck🧡🤍🩷✨ :
And living this as an only child was hell 😭
2026-07-24 13:20:52
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alessia.mikha
Alessia :
Guys I have a question for you - was your mom a little sister? Bc my mom was and I found a decent correlation between little siblings that don’t do shit that have kids when they’re older and make them be like the “older sister” 🙄
2026-07-24 16:34:28
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ivy___noir
Ivy Noir✨ :
As an only child to a single mother phewwwww 😭
2026-07-24 18:31:48
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sukariwins
sukariwins :
she even made me move all the large heavy items bc I was “strong” even though my brother is 6’3 and only 2 years younger than me
2026-07-24 08:06:23
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artistic.scientist_
🌟🦇Aidán🦇🌟 :
the other term she’s referencing is emotional in-ce-st. if this resonates, PLEASE look this term up and educate yourself, it’s very important you understand your experiences fully.
2026-07-25 01:56:04
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denise_anzaldua
denise anzaldua :
How did you manage your moms venting? I realized all this and get very triggered now when someone asks me for help, and have some ptsd trying to make new friends because I spot all the red flags, how did you over come this? And what qualities did you look for when finding new friends?
2026-07-24 02:30:31
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butterscotchkrimpet7
butterscotchkrimpet7 :
Chile my mom referred to me as the wife and she was the husband 😂 like??
2026-07-25 01:07:17
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fizzabnaqvi
FizzaNaqvi :
Daughters of women who are married to men that they didnt had any emotional relationship with are included in this.
2026-07-24 02:43:04
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seriouslyspade
Spade ♠️ :
He lived in the house. He didn’t work or do any labor. No child rearing. Nothing. Then I was the villain for resenting them both.
2026-07-24 16:54:14
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nikkibby552
nikkibby552 :
omg it was a running joke in my home growing up that I was bob the builder bc I could do anything . I empathize so much with this message .
2026-07-24 00:52:26
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safina.sher
Saf Needs Coffee :
Taking on the 'boyfriend' role in female friendships is another way this shows up!
2026-07-24 19:38:02
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bleedingfae
BleedingFae :
my father was in the house. He's just incompetent
2026-07-24 12:15:14
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that1heaux
That1Heaux :
I cut that off and limited my conversations with her
2026-07-24 03:55:05
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