@anxiouslyalej: Why women who do less, get more⬇️ There isn't a woman more polarizing than the one who does less in relationships, yet is spoiled and adored beyond measure. Here is the psychology behind it. 1. It's who she is over what she does. Doing less attracts men who are genuinely interested in who she is, not what she does for them. Doing the most attracts relationships fueled by her own over-functioning and self-abandonment. 2. Attachment follows effort. It's called the effort justification effect, we become invested in what we work for. So when you pour in all the effort and he just exists, that is exactly why you became obsessed and he didn't. You did all the work, so you built all the attachment. 3. Men fall in love in absence. Women fall in love in presence, but men fall in love in the contrast between what life feels like with you versus without you. So when she stops forcing it, a man who actually likes her steps up to close the gap, and that effort builds his attachment. It's even linked to vasopressin, the male bonding hormone, because now he's strategizing how to see her again. 4. Honor versus favor. The woman who does less centers herself, she's comfortable with space and silence, and she's not asking "what are we," so the man is courting her and choosing to invest. The woman doing the most pushes the relationship forward, and even if he commits, he didn't choose it, he went along with it. One man sees the relationship as an honor. The other sees it as a favor. Doing less gives a man exactly two options: step up, or step away. And either way, she's good, because the right man was never going to need your labor to recognize your value. Comment I” know that’s right”if you're doing less from now on. Keywords: why women who do less get more, doing less in relationships, effort justification effect, men fall in love in absence, stop over functioning, honor vs favor, centering yourself, vasopressin bonding hormone, dating advice for women, relationship psychology #womensdatingadvice #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #feminineenergy

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