A man being a damsel in distress is a complete turn off
2026-07-24 14:08:58
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713JT :
Give you an example. If I’m driving through a parking lot with a woman in my passenger seat I’m not relaying to her that I can’t find parking or I’m having trouble. It’s “hey babe let me drop you to the door and I’ll find a place to park”. Even if I go into a complete panic after I dropped her off at least I’m not showing her that panic or trying to make her part of the solution
2026-07-24 15:27:33
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Last King Of Scotland :
Speaking from the perspective of a married man. You just have to have the ability to get stuff done even if you don’t know how to. I’m pretty sure women don’t want to hear a man say “I don’t know” during a situation
2026-07-24 14:35:13
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Ashley 💕 :
Hear me out, I don’t think they’re natural leaders. Most need to be told what to do, I think they are very good at being told what to do and executing it. Very few are actual leaders
2026-07-24 15:22:45
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Asauntee :
I think a lot of the time women say “leader” when they really just mean “competent partner” 😭😭 the bar is so low.
2026-07-24 19:57:54
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Shy :
I was dating this guy, and one day his car flashed a system error on the screen. He started panicking. I pulled up YouTube, searched the error, and had him pull over. We watched a quick video, followed the steps, and fixed it in less than a minute. That was the moment I realized he wasn't a leader or a problem solver. Gave me the biggest ick.
2026-07-24 16:34:21
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desimperfect :
This! I have a leader who plans EVERYTHING. I couldn’t imagine dating someone who didn’t lead. In stressful situations, he tells me to turn my brain off and let him handle it. 🥰🥰🥰
2026-07-24 22:00:46
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Dyonasis :
Bc I am constantly amazed at how my husband is not only always able to find a good parking spot but whip in there like it’s nothing
2026-07-24 22:11:04
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Tay1ore :
It’s so true. I dated someone in the past who kept tripping over himself when we were out in public and kept missing exits when I was in the car with him. Like things happen but it shows he wasn’t grounded or had the ability to trust himself
2026-07-24 13:55:12
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Jenn🧚🏾♀️ :
And yes it is that serious!!!!
2026-07-24 13:56:54
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ashiajohnson922 :
Facts and his inability to lead in little instances will affect you in many aspects and phases of life. Not worth it especially as black women!
2026-07-24 03:06:38
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Just a chill girl :
But sometimes they will lead you to the lowest point of your life. You have to watch them closely lmao.
2026-07-24 17:57:25
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Ife :
“You ain’t no leader bro” 😂😂😂 “let me back this slab in” 😂😂 her clip lives rent free in my brain
2026-07-24 13:37:14
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Kenney P. :
The airport example is actually pretty common than you think. Most men haven’t been on Airplanes or even traveled that much compared to women. Most haven’t even left they city
2026-07-24 22:01:28
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Ms Ann Drist :
It’s competence.
2026-07-24 22:09:50
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Aphrodite💒🕊️💞🐚 :
It’s an ick!!! A man stressing over a parking space
2026-07-24 14:19:21
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tonyabrentz :
A Capricorn man leads
2026-07-24 21:22:39
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TheMedicalNailNurseofJackson :
I kid y'all not,we were in bed and heard a loud hard noise in the kitchen, we just stared at each other for like 6 secs,then he closed the room door...I sign my lease next week🩷
2026-07-24 14:01:57
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mel 🫧 :
If a man doesnt make sure he’s walking on the outside of the sidewalk, if he walks in front of me when we’re outside… yeaaah not taking you seriously whatsoever
2026-07-24 12:58:13
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shana1.11 :
The same men being like “oh I just go with the flow” 🤣
2026-07-24 12:45:01
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SAJADAARI :
I was on a date one time & I dropped my phone , I just bought it so it didn’t have a case, when it dropped it scuffed the side a little and I was so annoyed about it . Instead of offering to at least take me to five below to get a case, this man rubs my back and says it’s not that bad.. like ?? No problem solving skills at all.
2026-07-24 13:51:32
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M$.PISCES :
The inability to admit you don't know something and seek the knowledge…ewh
2026-07-24 11:31:59
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Gabby 💐 | +Stylish & VLOGS :
Some women like being in charge but me????? You’re in charge!
2026-07-24 14:45:53
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kayla | louisville lash artist :
Initiative, confidence & the ability + willingness to problem solve.
2026-07-24 13:19:20
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