if u do this and u realize it after, just redirect the conversation back to them.
2026-07-24 15:12:08
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ℰ𝓂𝒾 :
Omd i hate it when it sounds like im making it ab
2026-07-24 03:23:24
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2swag :
I be doing this with myself in my own head
2026-07-24 03:52:11
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Alex :
When people vent to me I give them my own situations to make them feel less alone but I feel like I js sound like I’m turning attention to me or being self centered
2026-07-24 04:08:45
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0:) :
No but in all seriousness how are we supposed to respond to that???? I try to relate with them but it becomes self centered I try to let them talk and speak more about their feelings but now it’s a “one sided conversation” or I give advice but now I feel like I’m annoying and won’t let my friends vent I try being positive and giving them hope but I feel like I’m forcing toxic positivity on them what do I doooooo i don’t know how to to friendships
2026-07-24 04:49:35
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☆LunchMoney☆ :
i mean i at least wait for them to finish- 😭
2026-07-24 15:28:11
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𑣲┆ 𝒅𝒂𝒚𝒂 ˚.⋆ֹ :
i hate doing it sm and i can’t stop doing it
2026-07-24 14:14:51
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Prehistoric | ZOO'S DNI🚫 :
No like literally this.. nurodivergent with severe social anxiety who genuinely doesn't understand how to socially interact in most situations, I usually get through those situations by running it like, through myself, yk? like, how would I want others to respond if I was the person talking? but it usually ends up turning out to like "this and this happened to me so I understand what you're going through!" instead and I feel awful 😭
2026-07-25 01:26:42
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Jay👁️ :
I just say “I get that” or something but I still think that sounds self centered and idk wjy
2026-07-25 06:04:38
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Ruby :
I love ppl like u who do this when I vent because I hate just sitting there talking bout myself and I feel like an alien freak if u don’t relate to me
2026-07-25 10:48:47
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☠︎︎ liga⌖mx :
why do i do ts
2026-07-24 06:26:53
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JackHenry Guy :
I try to make them feel like I understand where there at by giving my own experience but how do you do that without making it ab you
2026-07-24 16:19:43
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Maegan🏎️🦝🌷 :
I feel like I do this but I’m not trying to take the attention I’m trying to relate 😭
2026-07-24 03:26:45
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Adrianna🌙 :
I realize this happens bc ppl dont ask me about myself
2026-07-24 13:13:22
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Maddie🤎 :
me unfortunately
2026-07-25 04:25:12
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kade 🃏 :
loop it back around to them bro if they initiate the conversation and you then add in a personal anecdote, find a way to tie it back to the topic at hand and say something equivocal about THEIR situation or ask a question. its not that ur talking about urself, its that u KEEP FOCUS on urself
2026-07-24 21:38:42
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AlexTheEmo🖤🖤 :
People do this to me all the fucking time dude… and I’m genuinely so convinced that they alll think their lives are worse than mine bc ALLL the time?? Really…? I get 2 words in n they talk over me “YEAHHH! My life is soooo bad!!” Ok…? We just talked about your life… can we talk about mine for a second??? I listened to you… why tf aren’t you listening to me?
2026-07-24 06:03:22
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Luz Elena :
You just redirect back to them, like “but what happened?” Or “but back to you why you feeling depressed?”
2026-07-24 16:52:38
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Jabberr :
Lowkey, js listen all the way through, nod and show ur paying attention. then I just say: hey, I'm sorry you feel that way; I'm here and you can come to me when you want to talk and have the energy too
2026-07-25 00:49:58
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