Getting yelled for liking showers is fucking dumb😭🙏
2026-07-24 13:18:49
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uhhhhhh idk name :
and they say why isn't my child talking to me anymore
2026-07-24 13:26:37
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Thats so messed up…
2026-07-24 13:17:01
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GTH :
What others think of you is none of you're business young man.
2026-07-24 21:49:36
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Nerox855 :
Thank you for sharing your story
2026-07-24 17:03:54
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Tripasik :
That's literally why I got traumatized and never showered everyday until recently 😭 Back when I moved to France, my parents always told me to not stay in shower for too long because of the water bills, but that alone didn't traumatize me. It's all the times I heard my step father growling and sighing when I stayed in the shower, making me think I was taking too long. There's was also my mother who told me to stop showering because I was apparently taking too much time. So at some point, I stopped showering until my hair were becoming too greasy. All this was happening when I was around 10 and 11. So for 7 years I wasn't showering enough and THE WORST PART is that my mother always told me to take a shower because I smelled. Like of course I'm gonna smell if you always tell me that I stayed for too long 😭. Anyway, we talked about it, she had no idea she had such an impact on me and now I can finally shower every day guilt free!
2026-07-24 16:06:33
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Daniel Peart :
Thank you for sharing your story. I really have compassion you experienced that neglect and abuse, I’ve had similar experiences.
2026-07-29 03:12:22
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Random :
I was also on the spectrum.
I was raised Christian, and got crushes on other boys as a kid.
I slowly began hating myself, and developed phobia of going to hell.
After years and chronic depression I realized I didn't believe.
2026-07-24 16:08:04
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jakubbanka6 :
damn this is so relatable…
2026-07-24 19:03:41
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Cheese :
its okay its wasnt youre fault
2026-07-24 22:15:09
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Ina :
i have autism too😔
2026-07-27 21:00:25
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Shiny000 :
Im also on the spectrum and i mask it a lot. Bullying is terrible and what you went through is also quite terrible. Glad you’re doing ok though
2026-07-29 18:49:31
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Chef Pee Pee :
I have autism too 😁
2026-07-24 13:57:05
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Annalise 🏴 :
Didn’t even know you had autism, so don’t even worry bcs as someone with an autistic partner with BPD and myself with ADHD I thought my tism radar was good 💞
2026-07-24 15:24:07
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K_374 :
That’s awful
2026-07-24 15:48:23
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Plume et Pixels 🇫🇷♾️ :
What? You are from my ND community ??? After alI this time I didn’t even realized? Happy Disability Pride Month then ❤️💛🤍🩵💚🩶🫂 from an AuDHDer (+ dyslexia and PTSD)
2026-07-25 03:54:13
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Novelette * 💟🏹/🍋🟩🧂 :
Dang
2026-07-24 13:14:03
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Suuu’ duuude 𓆝𓆟𓆞𓆝𓆟 :
Glad you found a way through it
2026-07-24 16:14:36
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Hello;) :
The masking is somthing I struggle with
2026-07-24 14:01:52
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Oxi :
You seem completely normal to me. Young, handsome and smart! I prefer being alone ( except for a very few people) , but would go for a coffee with you ( Europe style coffee! Sitting in a cafe, having a cake, talking for two hours)
2026-07-25 06:10:36
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NERF TALK :
I’ve seen many of your videos, and I would never have thought autism. You present yourself very well, and have very clear points.
2026-07-24 20:18:33
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Wappdawg :
I hear all this and agree. My mom has bipolar that wasn't properly treated until I was an adult. I'm diagnosed with anxiety, clinical chronic depression, Tourette's, and ADHD (plus likely for autism but don't feel like testing) I was terrible for hygiene as a kid. now as an adult, I can shower at 8pm, and if I don't shower in the morning I will be sweating with anxiety... what a wild ride weve all been on.
2026-07-24 14:06:42
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Dee :
Yes. Heavy on the “tinted air” part
2026-07-24 13:54:29
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Christina :
Hey, this is an important video that makes me really uncomfortable. I’m so glad you made it, I’m sorry I can’t watch it all the way through just yet. Thank you
2026-07-24 13:42:30
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Mike Rettinger :
I have autism too.
2026-07-24 17:55:47
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