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🌷 :
Insane how a man has been able to understand the female mind so well.
2026-07-25 00:32:54
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SIENNA 🌴🥥🐚🌺🦩 :
I think it’s actually the opposite.
2026-07-24 17:42:17
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Sofi 🧚♀️ :
One’s value is not dependent on others recognition/ability to perceive it. What is value in a human being? How do you measure it? All human life is inherently noble and respectable. Many of the statements in your video are put like absolute truths when they’re faulty.
2026-07-25 21:33:54
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. :
I don’t want love I want loyalty
2026-07-25 18:35:37
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charla🥰🌈🌞🌎🗿❤️ :
I think my fear is that most men who are single right now may not be capable of (or truly want) love.. I really don't want that to be true it's just a fear based off of my own experiences and most people I know 🙃
2026-08-18 08:59:41
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snowi :
this one is actually so good.. for me i think it’s so weirdly different and i’m not sure how to express the feeling i have. it’s like part of me knows and always knew that desire is easy to generate but it’s not as fully authentic. i tend to get overly scared of „what ifs” in the deeper layer. i always wanted to be desired and chosen even in moments where i am not my best self, on my lowest actually. (i don’t mean here hurting people but just being sick, overly anxious, looking ugly etc). i always had this creeping anxiety of i know people want me and wants to stay with me bc im safe person, im loyal, supportive, but there are moments where i don’t feel desirable thus not fully loved and esp not chosen. as if im chosen bc i am the safe space and sweet times, comfortable place to be, people trust me know i wont betray and stay on their side, accepting of people weaknesses but not the woman that is desirebale so much that they anchor within me and stop leaking attention and wandering outside. its bc maybe im myself type of person all in, focused on what person i invest in and i want the same back. i often had moments of wanting to break the cycle of the good woman, but i kinda cannot chase pure validation that isnt tied to deeper meaning…maybe cuz they see my loyalty and this intense focus as boring idk? it feels as if im not „wild” enough or not unpredictable enough to be chosen, if it makes sense. sometimes im asking myself how is it on the other side of the coin, the situation you describe. my situation leaves me often feel lonely, abandoned and not enough.
2026-07-24 19:37:27
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Milaydas :
Love is such a pure thing. I resonated with that video✨🎀 it’s so true
2026-07-24 17:34:28
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Funaya Mami water 🧜🏿♀️ :
So what does all this mean? If nobody will love me should I sit there hoping for someone would or do I just keep focusing on being desirable?
2026-07-25 14:38:16
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Laur Life Ops :
That opening line tho
2026-07-24 22:58:32
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inaworldofmyown2 :
Hi Ash, really enjoy your content 🙏 Can I ask why you choose to use girls instead of women?
2026-07-24 20:25:58
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Marta :
The way you articulated this was mind-blowing! First time that I heard someone explain something so at the core of our existence as women! A heartfelt thank you for this!✨✨✨
2026-07-25 09:16:21
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sarahdelang22 :
Your takes are profound thank you
2026-08-04 00:31:13
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leaj631 :
I’ve diconstructed this at the beginning of this year, decided i didn’t want relationships anymore, focused on deep hard healing and now im discovering that im actually gay ! Coming out at 31, i needed to let go of attention from men, and make room to hear and listen to my voice again and now i know ahah I know i’ll love again for real this Time 🌈 my Life and how I move through it is already so different its crazy. We deeply need as women to dédicate ourselves to know who we are, be curious and love ourselves, then everything opens
2026-07-25 10:15:05
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serxdove :
I love when you mention God, are you a believer in Jesus by chance?
2026-07-25 19:20:58
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a chaotic icon :
stop attacking me
2026-07-30 18:47:03
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. :
No girls want protection from father not expectations. We don't want to be treated like sons
2026-08-16 09:15:35
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marlena♡ :
jesus man I ve never heard this out loud before I genuinely feel like throwing up now solid psychoanalysis and thanks for the identity crisis
2026-07-26 01:18:47
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🍀 :
What is love 🥲
2026-08-04 07:31:55
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thedunnewan :
These videos are fantastic
2026-07-24 22:44:20
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Salsabil :
@Salsabil: This video really opened up my eyes. I love the way you explained desire, and it is a great opportunity to journal and to get more inside what I want out of a partner.
2026-08-06 20:55:04
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Jemy :
I love ur videosssss
2026-07-26 10:27:36
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Christina Johnston :
I went through these cycles and then a third experience came to me. I just layed down the request and the question of value or love from a man. I noticed that the sun rises every morning. The sun feels warm and coffee is wonderful. These questions are not so important. Living and enjoying this moment is important. Love comes and goes but the sun always rises and the coffee always brews and smells wonderful. Being alone is not lonely.
2026-08-13 04:54:37
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0_0 :
These were the thoughts i had in mind today. U articulated them so well
2026-07-31 05:23:03
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Alissa :
You’re almost there but not quite. You can become love itself. Most people don’t recognize it, because of ego/desire games
2026-08-09 04:40:12
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Iggy Oddity :
Wow I feel this
2026-07-25 18:53:22
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