my husband left 6ish weeks ago. they have never put the work in to process the traumas that were triggered that caused the breakup. we were together 6 years, they should have known I didn't do that to be malicious and that I would never purposely hurt them. they left and nothing is working out right for them. I'm going tf through it, but I'm also putting in the work to be better for myself not just them. and I have been hearing things from a 3rd party how they're starting to realize and regret what they did. but until they start putting in the work too, I know I can't let them back as much as I want my marriage and my life back
2026-09-25 13:13:41
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✨𝐸𝑏𝑜𝑛𝑦✨ :
This was a READ on my breakup six months ago. I was blindsided and betrayed and I immediately sat with the grief and emotions. I accepted their decision and moved forward with my life. They have reached out since and I’ve been silent. They severed the bond and I can’t go back even if I wanted to and it took me a LONG time to accept that reality. Love isn’t enough at the end of the day. They were very avoidant, cruel and inconsistent.
2026-07-28 03:10:16
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jekichen :
Shrink here. Highly recommend reading Ηеаlіng lѕn’t Рrеttу (Μ. Ηаrtѕоn). Sadness and shame that you are feeling right now are normal responses to big and small betrayals you’ve been experiencing your whole life. Take my word for it and give it a read.
2026-07-29 15:45:13
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kathrynlina :
This is so spot on. My avoidant partner and I broke up on Friday, and there's been no contact or words since. In the beginning of our relationship, he was the most amazing partner I could have ever asked for. however, as time went on, he showed me how unable he was to deepen the relationship, he just didn't have the capacity. My nervous system was so incredibly dysregulated due to the inconsistency and poor communication skills, and I was just holding on to the potential of what he was in the beginning. I feel relief right now, but I still miss (aspects) of him. Part of me wants to contact him out of habit at this point, but truly, I can't allow myself to be the one to break contact.
2026-07-28 14:22:26
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GlowUp Girl Kels🦋 :
It’s almost disgusting how every word is accurate here I have no words….. Aries here
2026-07-28 05:46:12
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crismeilynnnn_ :
I claim an apology
2026-07-28 01:38:22
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a__reverie :
Just unlocked a new reader, I really am going through it
2026-07-28 13:41:55
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julianne marie 💌 :
yes ladies we need to stay strong 🥲
2026-07-28 02:22:00
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Allie :
He’s blocked. He will remain blocked. He was awful to me; I’ve never had any man treat me as badly as he did. Ever. I can’t allow him back into my life bc it interferes with the trajectory of my progress. ✌️♥️
2026-07-29 04:02:10
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Renn_SoulPoet :
This could not be more spot on and timely!!! Thanks soooo much! ✨
2026-07-28 03:34:45
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C Morgan :
Im an aries
2026-08-26 01:25:24
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Leslie :
you are definitely ON POINT. 🤜🤛
2026-07-29 08:23:51
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evie :
this is so accurate wth
2026-07-29 06:53:59
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𝒍𝒆𝒂 🦢 :
claimm
2026-07-29 00:21:43
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NTsaL :
I feel ATTACKED 😅😂
2026-07-28 22:00:00
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fairyangelcustoms :
The caption ❣️
2026-07-29 00:10:04
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bestiesforever :
never was marriage. I talked to him for 3 weeks. he was a POS since the beginning. he knows I told him how much of a massive POS. I blocked him a yr ago. I'm in queen of swords reverse. I hate everyone and even the universe due to this pos. I was a loving person now I'm a massive cunt and hate everyone.
2026-07-28 09:16:27
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Insane :
YUPPPPPPPPPP!!!!
2026-07-28 13:08:06
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ℒ𝒾𝓃𝒶 :
i claim
2026-07-28 08:32:36
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thelittlenotepad :
Wow, this is crazy. To a T.
2026-07-28 13:00:07
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Monserrat2024 :
Resonated so much, husband and I (20 years together) separated back in April (he left!). Since then I worked on myself, moved forward, healed, and loved myself again! But June 24th, he asked to work things out again and see how things go. I agreed, but it’s hard because on one end it would feel disrespectful to myself but then again I do want to try, we have kids and I do love him. I’m just setting boundaries and limits this time but we’ll see 😞
2026-07-29 03:18:39
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user234901240 :
Claiming
2026-07-29 10:43:37
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Mewis Sydney :
claim with positive energy 🙏
2026-07-28 06:26:40
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Bec’s Realm ✨💖✨ :
I’m his loss & he knows it 🤭🤭 Too late now…….
2026-07-28 01:47:33
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Debbie 🌸 :
This totally resonates with my situation… he “abandoned me” 3 months ago out of the blue after 11 years together. No contact since that day. He literally destroyed something inside of me. 💔
2026-07-28 07:37:13
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