Shaina Richardson | Hypnotist
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Friday 24 July 2026 22:11:54 GMT
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goodgirlwhoshopeful :
Apologies in advance for the long comment. I’ve been struggling as someone who’s naturally quiet anxious to be able to sit in the uncertainty. I’ve been seeing a guy for a couple of months; I’ve never known such ease and chemistry in a man’s presence, never had such reciprocation. He knew I had basically no romantic experience and didn’t mind, he was thoughtful and asked me questions about me. We saw each other pretty consistently and we fell into a pattern of every few days check ins and seeing each other weekends in a row - I was vulnerable the last time I saw him that I had good news and just would love a hug and to celebrate with him and he came over because of that and confessed he resonated with the confession of needing a hug. Then suddenly, in the last week, he went very quiet so I tried to gently check in once it was an out of character silence. He came back and apologised and confessed he’s got a lot going on with his parents (one is ill and he’s confessed he struggles to deal with the other’s inability to regulate emotions and thus he has to parent them & manage their disagreements). He then also confessed, unprompted, he recognises he can go distant when dealing with such stuff and he’s conscious he doesn’t want to ‘keep letting me down’, which came across as a standard he has set for himself he’s not meeting. I told him I was so grateful he opened up and I didn’t think he was a let down, which he seemed very receptive to. He then said ‘I would love to keep hanging out’ and then suggested a comedy show. He’s gone as far as to suggest where a day later, when I agreed and showed openly I would love to. I asked ‘When are we making this happen?’ but now it’s been 3 days and he hasn’t actually suggested a day. I find it really hard to sit in the silence… I have such an urge to check in or send one of the articles I saw that I saved because I knew he’d love it… but I don’t want to sabotage it. I KNOW this isn’t something conventional - the level of intimacy and connection we already have is unlike anything I’ve had… What do I do to judge him towards making an actual plan? Or do I do nothing? I would be really interested to hear your take!
2026-07-26 15:54:03
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madsss☀️ :
I am so so glad my brain no longer works this way it is ABSOLUTE torture and now my energy is calm and I literally do not care at all now.
2026-07-26 19:48:33
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lovergirltiina :
If he can’t initiate, that’s not your person!
2026-07-26 20:07:58
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Diana | Homestead Mentor 🌱 :
OMG that's me. Wanting the certainty. LOL. I'm two weeks into dating someone and relaxing, sitting in the uncertainty causes me anxiety but I'm enjoying just being with him and getting to know him. Not focused on the outcome
2026-07-24 23:22:50
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J :
This is 100% true. Been on 6 dates with a guy over the last month and it's going well. I haven't asked to see him again and just wait to see when he reaches out on his pace. It's been cathartic to just release control and go with the flow.
2026-07-26 18:18:07
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Ava :
Great point🔥 I feel that you have Virgo in your birth chart.💖
2026-07-25 09:39:21
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floridaprincess :
Or they tell you at the end of the date that they want to see again soon and even suggest a day.
2026-07-25 12:55:37
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jess 🤠🚐 :
ohh im early
2026-07-24 22:18:09
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Erika :
I have a couple of those men on the roster and it’s so nice. They know my free days and are always trying to plan something. 🥰 I don’t have time to worry about any of them.
2026-07-25 07:33:32
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