@therealmamaremy: #stitch with @Lilyy obviously this is not towards disabled young adults but if your able-bodied/minded, you should be able to do this things and this should NOT be controversial! #controvery #infantilizing #teenmom #youngadults

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st3ll91
st3ll91 :
But isn’t it contradictory saying “you should be able to sustain yourself “while you are a Sahm and have a husband that provides for you
2026-07-25 01:11:04
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cassidy_4363
𝓒𝓪𝓼𝓼𝓲𝓭𝔂⭐️🕯️🦇 :
a womans brain isnt developed until 25-32 while a mans brain isnt developed until 25-32, so technically yes we are still children, developmental wise. but personally i believe it matters if you can support yourself and obviously your children, mentally, physically, emotionally, etc. there are PLENTY of young moms who definitely arent having kids at the right time but if your kids are happy and healthy, if you’re happy and healthy, and if everyones safe and fed, etc, then youre doing great and it shouldnt be others decision whether or not you should have kids. idk if any of this makes sense but yeah
2026-07-25 13:40:00
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foggyhearth
foggyhearth :
You have to know what you’re inviting onto your page when you repost something from her, though. She and her husband are, like, super extreme gun lovers lmao.
2026-07-24 23:21:44
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ellie._.007
ellie🦈 :
Literally, I’m 18, married, graduated at 16, bought my own house at 16, and I have a child. We didn’t get married because of my child—my child isn’t his. But regardless, by the time you’re legally an adult, you should be developing the basic life skills to support yourself and work toward the life you want. You won’t always have people to do everything for you. Your mom isn’t going to cook your meals, grocery shop, clean your house, pay your bills, or cover your college expenses when you’re 20. Like she said, nobody is saying you have to get married or have kids at 18. The point is to know what you want, work toward it, and be able to take care of yourself instead of spending all your time clubbing just because you’re “young and free.” Using youth as an excuse to avoid responsibility isn’t a mindset I’d encourage. And I didn’t know there was such a thing as “becoming an adult too fast.” Once you’re legally an adult, it’s time to start taking responsibility for your own life. sorry this is so long😭
2026-07-31 16:16:18
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toriyazmin
toriyazmin :
not everyone has parents/ support systems teach them this stuff. We need to check the past generation not this one
2026-07-25 04:03:02
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astialthepuppyboy
Aaron :
people with autism, other cognitive/developmental disabilities, chronically ill people, etc, this isn't for you 🫂 don't beat yourself up, you're doing great as long as you're moving forward
2026-07-26 20:26:08
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xoxo.lilyyy_alexa
Lilyy :
Oh my goodness I’m so glad you liked my video! ❤️
2026-07-24 23:15:53
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annaw.996823
Anna <3 :
Thank you people just automatically jump to conclusions. You didn’t repost it cuz she was maga you reposted it because she was making a point. Coming from a liberal
2026-07-24 23:15:05
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queenjaiden06
Queen Jaiden :
I honestly can't cause i have so much anxiety cause of my autism and people wanna judge me cause my mom does makes me dinner and holds on to the money that I have
2026-07-24 22:58:12
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alexnadriachiiii0
alexnadriachiiii0 :
ruby in the background sound so adorable
2026-07-26 13:59:11
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abber_05
⟡ Ab ⟡ :
Everyone lives life at their own pace. If you have a child or children at a young age it would make sense for you to know how to cook, clean, shop, schedule things etc. and even if you don’t have kids at a young age it’s still good to learn how to do certain things at a young age. I can totally sympathize with people who have a hard time with everyday things but the more I’ve practiced and just adjusted it gets a lot easier 🫶🏼
2026-07-24 23:17:11
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idkrobynn
Robyn ⸆⸉ :
I can’t even imagine what it’s like for you guys, I’m 26 and I’m still treated like I’m a child and people are shocked I’ve moved out of my parent’s house.
2026-07-25 04:17:52
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ehhh_wtf
. :
I'm learning I swear I'm trying
2026-07-24 23:02:16
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phantomcrunchyxx
Apollo | Writer ✍️📖 :
Im autistic and 19 and I can do all of these I need a little help with some of the points but other then that I can do a lot of myself. do I struggle absolutely but its literally a part of life. like why are we normalising not knowing how to cook an egg at nearly 2 decades old-
2026-07-25 00:18:06
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user362824329383
𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 :
i think they’re hating because she’s maga girl
2026-07-24 23:45:29
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charlotte.book02
Charlotte Côté :
Everytimes I go to a pregnancy appointments they goes: soooo is this your first pregnancy? Do you want your mom with you? (I'm 24 with my third baby. First time I was 20years old pregnant) they always looking at me with the most judgentmal look ever🥲🥹
2026-07-25 00:37:19
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get_bent07
🫶 Azzy 🫶 :
See dawg ppl are absolutely surprised im engaged bc im “only” 19 but like i cook, clean, take care of myself and my fiancée. Its odd to me how people see ppl who are 22 and younger as if we’re still children
2026-07-25 02:15:06
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onlyoudears
🪽 :
There are some points where I agree, and others disagree, and that's fine. Some people her age, or older, have ambitions beyond marriage and having children; they have studies and other dreams that can't be fulfilled with children or a spouse. There's a prevailing notion that marriage should be with a mature person who understands their feelings, but young mothers shouldn't be judged this way. Feminism, in general, is about respecting a woman's decision to marry or not, to have children or not. The fault doesn't lie with our generation; it lies with those who don't respect others' decisions and assume that the other person made that decision out of ignorance.
2026-07-26 13:00:55
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weepinghe4rt
𐔌 ᛝ Reverie .ᐟ 𐂯 :
I wish so badly to be able to do all of this, unfortunately I'm a disabled 16 year old and won't be able to be fully independent until my mid 20s 😔💔 Your videos always gives me hope!!
2026-08-04 09:06:58
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chavonne_xx2
🖤🖤Chavonne🖤🖤 :
Facts, Facts and more facts 💯
2026-07-26 12:59:15
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lisa___._._
Lisa :
I can see both sides. I’m 50, my parents bith left school and worked full time jobs aged 14. Was normal to marry from 16/17 so by 21 you’d been living an adult life for a long time. Then comes the ability for more teens to attend university, travel, even contraception being widely available gave people the choice to delay ‘traditional responsibilities’ to the point were, in my opinion and generally speaking, a 21yr old now is only at the maturity level of a 15/16yr old back in the 1950’s. Another result, anyone choosing the ‘old fashioned’ route is now looked done in or considered brain washed/ignorant.
2026-07-25 08:56:15
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gracie_mc39
gracie_mc39 :
my thing is like why does it matter what other people do like if they wanna be married to young have kids young and even if a woman wants to stay at home I think that’s perfectly fine but if she doesn’t wanna stay home get a job get a career if that’s what you wanted to do but if you don’t want to you don’t have to it’s called having freedom and having a choice
2026-07-26 20:57:28
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