the major problem with this line of thinking is that it assumes women are using sex as a reward, or the absense of sex as a punishment. a vast majority of us dont. relationships arent meant to be transactional, but they are meant to be reciprocal. when we consistently pour ourselves into somebody who doesnt do the same, for years, we end up woth nothing left to pour. and often times we DO have the conversation, but our partner refuses to see the difference between transactionality and reciprocity.
2026-07-26 14:37:04
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LC :
I don’t think women don’t have s** to punish the other person. Intimacy is an expression of love for women and we need emotion, love, and connection to fully be present in the moment and to enjoy it. If a man is lacking in the relationship and not emotionally present, than a woman feels “invisible” so I understand why a woman would naturally pull back from intimacy because they will feel more like an object instead of it being a natural loving act.
2026-07-25 13:15:57
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eezy :
Both are betrayals… just different kinds 🤏🏼
2026-07-25 13:04:10
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BeautyByArcsnstrokes | Mua :
when issues happen in marriage most men avoid having a conversation. no conversation! just showing up for sex without having an honest conversation because most men feel its their right to be given it whether you arw happy eith them or not. no emotional intelligence. no emotional connection
2026-07-25 20:42:35
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IamEnitaOdofin :
This applies to both genders. Focusing on men alone should not give women who cheat a pass. I am female and I know women cheaters exist too.
2026-07-26 14:29:13
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Brandie Carlton :
Not justifying cheating.. goes on to justify cheating. The woman is presumed to be the one that makes intimacy a transaction, which allows men to get that transaction somewhere else.
2026-07-25 13:05:35
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Herz4her :
Honestly sometimes it’s not withholding intimacy, But how do you give your body to someone who hurts you???? That’s the most vulnerable you can be as a woman ( when having sex) so how do you become vulnerable with someone who just hurt you. My body is rejecting you at the point, it’s not even about me, my heart can forgive you but my body builds a wall of protection from You
2026-07-25 21:33:22
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David Dixon :
A Man doesn’t stop WANTING; he starts WONDERING…#Barzzz
2026-07-26 14:19:25
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༺ 𝑀𝒹 𝒮𝒶𝓎𝑒𝓂 𝐼𝓈𝓁𝒶𝓂 ༻ :
GUYYSSS PLEASE do the vera hart archetype quiz if you're struggling with manifesting like I did! Changed my life completely
2026-07-26 14:45:24
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Melva Yashica :
💯💯💯 Cheating is definitely a choice
2026-07-25 13:26:34
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Lean :
the day he asked me if he could have sex with other people because I wasn't giving it to him when he could have just asked me more about my feelings and worked through it without a fight. I realized what was really up.
2026-07-26 13:00:16
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sweet~T💜 :
You not single right? My culture doesn’t allow women to propose first but I think I’m in love with your intellect 😎
2026-07-25 14:56:25
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Munya-M-N :
intimacy & xes? one can have xes without intimacy right or vice versa???
2026-07-26 14:06:54
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soveganfoods :
This assumes only men are on the receiving end of this but it not so, women are punished in this way always but we don't go looking elsewhere.
2026-07-25 13:44:28
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Velmari | Skin :
So... the alternative is? do not withhold your body? give it and give it even when you don't want to? even when he behaves poorly towards you? even when he constantly hurts you? I feel like you just wrapped the same message with a bow. So I ask.. what's the real advice he's giving? Give your body until he's really to talk and resolve things?
2026-07-26 10:33:09
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Telsa💕✨ :
What about some women that suffer abuse from that partner and don’t wanna be intimate with them is it the women fault
2026-07-25 22:49:01
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Raoul :
Well said 💯
Everything is based on a choice hence cheating is a choice 🤌🏽
2026-07-25 13:05:14
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czacaleb :
.. there's nothing like cheating,it's just one person sleeping with another other than their partner...if not,what do you call "swinger sex"?
2026-07-25 15:47:54
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realist879❌️ ♊️ :
I want to see you marry an Amazing woman.🙏❤️
2026-07-25 14:39:15
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Morally :
I think honest communication is key i have found me have a disconnect in listening if your wife is complaining about you showering once a week, her having to always wash the sheets, her being tired from the kids or whatever it is in your house. Grown up and deal with the issues she pointed out. The amount of times I hear the woman said no and I went out and made the effort to get another woman's attention for her to want to lay down with me. While ignoring the wife is hilarious, take some accountability that maybe you like the thrill or chase or didnt want to do the work consistently at home. I am a wife who loves her husband but nothing pisses me off more than him ignoring something I said then feel wounded when I hold him accountable like sir I want you while you are being the best you dont sever me dirt and expect me to take it.
2026-07-25 16:33:19
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Sopysoprancy(Ada El Roi) 🇲🇹 :
God bless u
2026-07-25 13:32:49
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dudu_tango :
Couldn't have said it better 🙌
2026-07-25 13:05:50
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Jahvon Johnson :
This is why a man should leave a relationship that has become transactional, cheating is never the answer.
2026-07-25 18:12:33
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Jennifer Janat :
Well 💯💯💯💯 said
2026-07-25 13:16:28
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anitamarie40 :
What happens when they cheat not long after giving birth, my child was 6 months when he told me and left
2026-07-26 08:30:35
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