@therealbuiltfromdamage:

Skelt245 :

your videos are always a gut punch, thanks for the clarity brother 🙏

kristinereneeNUTZ :

I'm done waiting in line

The Massage Team :

this guy is talking right to the anxious-preoccupied attachment people 🙌🙌🙌

Amanda Sharp | Author :

Dannnnnnnnnggggggggggggggg 🔥

Milestogo :

This made me cry... I am going through some self realizations in this season. I am 63 and I was journaling this morning and realized that every relationship I had, I came into the relationship as a blank canvas. Waiting to be painted by them instead of being the painting they admired enough to truely want. My hope is that men and women that do the same as waiting in line, see it and act on it and heal accordingly. 🥰. Never too late, right???

RainatheVoid🦋 :

Or they start out in the beginning seeming to choose you and over time it became obvious they chose what I did for them. Because they were always nicer after I got them something or helped them. But as soon as that act became mute, it was as if I didn't exist but everyone else did.

Roz :

Right. ok. so how does one stop being a place holder and start getting chosen? it has to be us right? the lowest common denominator? always attracting the folks that enjoy your company, think you're fun, like what you can do, provide, or be for them at the time and then always discard you when the next new shiny toy shows up. we're the problem, right???

SnarkyJ71 :

Ugh this is so ON POINT and in my mind I always go into relationships thinking I am in competition with an unknown constituency. So “emotional CrossFit” is 1000% accurate. Done standing in line!!

Beloved 💞 :

Or you let them go!!! Been gone!!!

Kris :

❤️I was a fucking curator of self abandonment. Standing in line became my identity. And there was nothing at the end of the line.

broke_as_hell2 :

That hit me really hard, thanks I needed to hear it

Roland “Rowen” Strange :

Dude, don’t stop sharing your experience. You’re deeply wise. Thank you

Zero :

It sucks when you go from being chosen knowing you hold a solid spot in someones life, to feeling like you've been thrown back in the line waiting. You see blips of what it was and told things are fine, but slowly start to see the excuses, the change in energy, the slow show towards a lack of effort... its painful

💜 Miss Dottie 💜✌️ :

Yikes that's my life right now 😬 and I'm not going to tolerate it anymore! 🔥🔥🔥I'm walking away from the toxic environment as I'm always the problem. ACTIONS WILL ALWAYS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!!! 💯💯💯

Astrid Haze :

Julie 🇨🇦 :

I’m so done waiting

chrystalcalrow :

That’s really profound Bro thx.

Jenn Paige :

Damn. That one hurt. But again a necessary hurt. Thank you for always having the right words. Much love my friend ❤️

Kristina :

love this yes.

Mitchc73 :

Body blow!! Great words thank you.

Ms Paper Plate Vegan :

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Excellent message 💚💚💚

MuchLove ToAll :

💯 done waiting. No lines, no rides, just enjoying the freedom of myself. And giving space for those that want to come along. sending MuchLove ToAll 💫💞✨️

Jamie :

Man…. Oh man… this makes so much sense.. it hurts but.. wow… I needed this in my face. Thank you 😌

Jaci ❤️ :

ugh 💔 why is it sooo hard to find a good man 😭 I hate this for all the people in the world that need to do this!! 💔💔💔 I'm so tired of being let down and thinking maybe I wanted too much.....NO!!! Wanting to be clearly chosen is not too much!!!

JLong :

Hearing this 2 years ago would have saved me so much heartache, had I been willing to receive this message back then. We think we're being selfless, but we're really just losing ourselves trying to convince someone else of our worth. Never again.