They’ll outsource the labor that traditionally belongs to them though. They’ll hire a landscaper, snow removal, plumbers, etc.
2026-07-25 04:10:21
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Jess|Southern Belle in Chicago :
They love seeing women struggle and be exhausted.
2026-07-25 03:02:09
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sierralashel :
They want a slave…
2026-07-25 08:06:46
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theluxtraveler1 :
My ex had an issue with me using the dishwasher
2026-07-25 05:13:29
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EbonyEyeCandy :
They don’t want wives, they want slaves
2026-07-25 17:59:24
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gemgirl223 :
It sounds like these men dont want their wives to hire help bc they view the women they married AS THE HIRED HELP.
2026-07-25 10:16:23
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Nique :
remind yu most household the woman works too & still they want her to do the labor
2026-08-03 18:31:46
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BYBATEE❤️🔥 BEAUTY & WELLNESS :
In Nigeria the average mid/upper middle class household has a maid, driver, gateman, gardener etc. This is the only place where I’ve seen men don’t want to make their wives lives easier .
2026-08-02 11:31:14
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inhairentcreation :
He wants Hierarchy. She wants Partnership.
2026-07-25 09:19:32
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Quartney’s Self-Care :
It’s a deep seeded belief that women are men’s helpmate, they genuinely believe that our purpose is to help them.
2026-07-25 01:42:15
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JubilationSweetsllc :
Busy work. Occupying her time so she can't escape
2026-07-25 03:15:34
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Lisha :
And since when did wife’s get paid…
2026-07-25 02:43:47
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Yassana :
Yet they’ll hire a plumber, an electrician, a mechanic, a contractor, a gardener etc.
2026-08-03 09:15:20
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Soft Life Season 🫧 :
It's absolutely disgusting and if I knew this I would not have gotten married at all.
2026-08-03 17:40:16
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Katie :
I always ask them when does she get to retire? They always dream of THEIR retirement, but when is her labor done?
2026-07-25 03:49:29
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goop :
my thing is that working in general is like 40-50 hours a week, weekends & holidays off, + pto & sick days. if youre a housewife, youre pretty much always on duty.
2026-08-03 18:04:54
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Just_here :
Sounds like punishment and humbling for me.
2026-08-02 04:11:42
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GENxSLADE :
It goes deeper than that. It's about resentment of patriarchal expectations. A lot of men resent the "provider" title despite dangling it in front of women like a lure. They don't want to HAVE to go out and put in the hard work and bring the money home with the expectation of sharing it. They're upset at the system but don't want to dismantle it because they are benefitting from it in the ways that make them feel validated. Every option of relief from this system goes against what it means to "be a man" and their ego won't allow them that reprieve. So since they're suffering, the women in their lives must suffer too. No easy outs for them either, despite how illogical it is. It's the way it has been and it's the way it has to be. Because for men with little faith in themselves, little love for themselves, they attach their pride and ego to the one thing they know: being the patriarchy approved version of a man.
2026-07-25 05:34:42
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Brittany :
You can also pay someone to have your children and raise them.
2026-07-25 05:21:45
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corpusdoll :
Its about them feeling superior.
2026-07-25 05:03:52
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Angela Kortright-Cal🇵🇷🌻♒️✨️ :
men aren't lonely enough
2026-07-25 20:35:37
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ceemxma :
They want us to suffer. When I was on unemployment my ex would be mad if he came home & it appeared to him that I was relaxed for one second of the day. Mind you I was making more money on unemployment than he was working his 9-5
2026-07-25 02:09:58
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Petty LaBelle :
What’s crazy, before men got married and were living on their own. They took care of themselves by cooking and cleaning. Soon as they get married, they forget how to do that.
2026-07-25 07:19:44
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shantiabelike :
And lets also be honest that a lot of men dont even really care if they’re in a clean house case in point what their houses look like when they’re single .. it’s definitely a power thing for many.
2026-07-25 16:30:03
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