@baddiesandbudgets: 50/50 only works if the labor is actually equal. And it almost never is 👏🏾 He splits the bills. You split the bills AND cook, clean, plan, remember, schedule, and hold everything together. That is not 50/50. That is you doing 90 while he does 10 with a receipt.Real partnership counts effort, planning, and mental load too. Not just the check.💕 #baddiesandbudgets #relationshipadvice #mentalload #knowyourworth #blackwomen