If your sibling was abusive your parent was abusive.
2026-07-25 12:33:08
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SodaSiren :
Going no contact with my siblings and mother is bliss ✨🥰🦋
2026-07-25 06:17:22
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🧲athalie :
Going no contact has been so peaceful 🥰
2026-07-25 17:10:58
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Ellie L :
I was abusive towards my sister when we were younger, I feel awful for helping build her nervous system like that. She is distant now and I understand, I should have protected her more the only thing I can do now is just show up and be better.
2026-07-25 11:58:07
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Traveler :
There shouldn't be any "sibling rivalry" either. My parents really enjoyed seeing us miserable around each other.
2026-07-25 08:50:51
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Kristen :
“Family is everything” is the most weaponized phrase in the English language I stg
2026-07-25 17:47:26
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Christy Lyn :
Ugh. Family is NOT everything! 🙄
2026-07-25 03:07:11
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karadoesbadart :
This topic is NOT talked about enough, thank you 🙏
2026-07-25 06:52:08
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thirty_flirty_and_thrifting :
LITERALLY MY BROTHER
2026-07-25 14:02:36
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ItsJuzMe 🆘🇺🇸#8647 :
I am FINALLY at peace once I cut ties with my brother & father. The verbal abuse was toxic and they tried to say I was the villain for speaking up.
2026-07-25 10:44:05
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❌️Gigi🪷🌺🌻 :
This conversation sounds familiar. I have had this same conversation too many times.💔🙄
2026-07-25 12:58:22
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Rena :
This is why I’m no contact with all of them 🥰
2026-07-25 04:15:06
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I Just Want to go to Disney :
This is such a fine line. I see this with my kids but not abuse, more of annoying each other. I step in a protect the younger child but they have to be able to resolve their issues on their own. Would love more reels about this topic!
2026-07-25 03:18:13
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neeski4 :
My brother used to beat me up all the time
2026-07-25 12:24:34
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rngfpwr :
I'm glad to see someone bringing attention to this
2026-07-25 12:50:58
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ARA THE ARTIST :
My sister abused me as a child and my mom pitted us against each other. I now have a great relationship with my sister and loathe my mother
2026-07-25 11:31:22
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Lisa :
Were you a fly on my wall for the last 57 years?
2026-07-25 15:36:16
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creedisagoodband :
Philly or Baltimore accent
2026-07-25 10:54:13
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sondradotcom :
Is there a more toxic belief than "family is everything"?
2026-07-25 07:58:40
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michellelebelle :
"I hate to say it" except no they don't. It's their favorite words, the magic words that solve the problem... or rather shift the consequences of their own actions to someone other than themselves. Which, same thing, right?
2026-07-25 17:02:12
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salmonbutt :
My brother threw me into a wall because i got upset at him for crashing my car while drunk and I GOT IN TROUBLE FOR IT.
2026-07-25 15:36:06
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ZOE Yoga Lifestyle :
Lived it. A paranoid schizophrenic brother who was abusive and violent and the family never cared I didn’t feel safe. No contact w the entire narc system saved my life.
2026-07-25 11:07:34
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baddestbinaz :
Most parents are lazy and would rather ignore the abuse or punish both kids instead of actually figuring out who was the bully and dealing with it. Then they wonder why their adult child goes no contact🙄
2026-07-25 06:45:13
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hootielehoo :
this is exactly my childhood. older (by 16 months) abusive brother. parents did nothing and I got in trouble asking for help. the result: I'm not capable of trusting anyone.
2026-07-25 03:41:43
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Louisiana Girl :
My sister was my 1st & biggest bully. Mom raised her up on a pedestal as the golden child and best friend, while I am the crazy black sheep. I’ve been in no contact with them for 2 yrs after 10 yrs of solid effort to repair the relationships and previously being no contact. It’s incredibly sad to have been mentally, emotionally, and sometimes physically abused in your own home growing up and no one in your family believes it was “all that bad”. And yet here we are. 🙄
2026-07-25 11:52:24
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