effort is feminine. effort is masculine. effort is adult. effort is human.
2026-07-25 18:37:21
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ines 😽 :
It’s propaganda to remove women’s agency in relationships. It ends how it starts
2026-08-27 07:15:05
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Tishtosh :
A LOT of men are shy and will not pursue a relationship with somebody unless they are VERY CERTAIN that the other person is also interested. You gotta try to COMMUNICATE your interest or, better yet, if you like a dude, YOU ask him out. Any decent guy who is actually interested will be glad you did.
2026-07-25 15:22:50
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Gem78 :
Oh he knows, I also know hes into me, but.... hes still nonchalant 🙄
2026-08-27 05:42:59
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Jeff jack :
Lmfao as a man that’s happened to me once or twice. How is a man supposed to pursue you if he doesn’t even know if you might like him back
2026-07-25 05:50:39
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Machete_Queen :
I just met this man. I said what the hell I’m gonna text him and whatever happens, happens. Take the chance. 💜
2026-07-28 18:38:51
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Dike Divine :
a shocking amount indeed
2026-08-26 07:27:28
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ht0wncl1ff :
Self taught*
2026-08-25 12:09:23
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alex 🌙 :
Me when Sydney gets firm
2026-07-28 00:23:24
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🧚🏼💕✨🍓 :
Hi Sydney, I am a huge fan of your content! I recently have gotten several videos on my feed regarding the “3 month rule”, that being that if he doesn’t make you his girlfriend within 3 months of talking he’s just wasting your time. Don’t know if you’ve covered this in a previous video but I’d love to hear your thoughts! It seems there’s a lot of content online that’s in support of this
2026-07-25 04:01:11
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yvana 🍃 :
I had a huge crush on a guy who was a friend of a friend and after some time of trying to subtly let him know that i liked him (it didn’t work!) i just texted him directly saying that i was interested in him. He reciprocated and now we have an amazing relationship and he shows me his love everyday :) i don’t recommend having the mentality of this comment!
2026-07-25 17:37:24
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JammyToast :
I tried this “black cat”, “if he wanted to, he would” thing for a while. I was miserable. As soon as I started communicating and asking for things I needed in the relationship, I started getting those things.
2026-07-25 11:51:07
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TheArcanaShoppe :
Asking women to engage as equals is inappropriate apparently
2026-07-25 13:09:25
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user2867922108 :
People with that mentality are closer to landing in the presence of a manipulator
2026-07-25 05:04:57
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Abe :
As a dude who isnt great at picking up social subtleties and is also aware that "being nice =/= being attracted to you", I have not and will never assume that someone is interested in me if they don't say it.
2026-07-25 18:52:47
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moonbliss09 :
I mustered up the courage to approach a guy I REALLY liked in my college class and turns out he was interested in me as well, he was just super duper shy. Now he’s in my dms and we’ve gotten closer. It doesn’t hurt to make the first move as a girl if you actually like him and he’s a good person.
2026-07-26 10:44:24
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rakdaruler :
We shouldn’t play kid games as adults 🙄
2026-07-25 10:46:54
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jasey cane :
Ladies………… I honestly had no idea that the whole “black cat energy” was not meant for me, as I was running totally anxious on the inside but on the outside - like Sydney said “dead fish” . Like….. seriously seriously literally look in the mirror!!!!!!
2026-07-25 08:41:45
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🧼 Soapy🧼 :
Its a lousy excuse for lack of communication. Instead of "Hey im into you would you like to go out?" its "You have my number.. you can text me.." In a world where men have to be on their toes 24/7 because its "all men"
2026-07-25 14:50:11
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michelle_young707 :
I’m just scared to let someone know I’m interested. Rejection isn’t exactly the most fun thing and I already know it’s coming so why put myself through that and then have to interact with them after.
2026-07-25 11:24:19
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Nickname :
Women on Dating apps when they like you first and then come back with one word replies with no questions 🙄
2026-07-25 12:17:01
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Natasha :
It's insanity! They haven't even developed their own personality or character.. just projection
2026-07-25 18:27:01
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Kelsea :
yeah I thought my husband had friend zoned me for a WHILE. He kept agreeing to dates and we were having fun, but it seemed like he was not romantically interested. So I asked him (granted I was the one who had asked *him* out so he knew I was interested in him) and it turns out he was trying to be respectful followed by a killer cold he didnt want to pass on to me so... weeks of confusion on my part... but once we talked about it and cleared it up thats when it became exclusive. like it doesnt have to be some huge therapy talk, just, am I misreading this situation.
2026-07-26 18:02:50
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wpnmstr29 :
"yes, I did a sweeping look across the room and made eye contact with him for half a second. that obviously come talk to me!"
2026-07-25 12:28:13
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📡 :
I had to break up with the most wonderful lovely attractive woman because she had zero emotional skills or conflict resolution. It’s heartbreaking.
2026-07-25 13:02:15
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