dontxiko :
U got it girl, I’m intj who interact with people and talk about how I feel openly, like acting the way social interaction/ norms needs me. But at the end of it, I think again, what’s the use for it, it only brings comfort to others and I’m just adapting, and as u said, it’s hard to fake and please, it feels like betraying my own self, and no big use if u please others, people respect you more when u are distant and self centered and self confident. And since we ain’t comfortable sharing private feelings much, it’s also annoying for us, since people ask about those private things from first conversation, and u have to keep laying to them to keep the conversation, or u have to reveal your stuff, but I’m ain’t comfortable sharing those, so it’s just a circle acting for people 🥲
2026-08-02 08:07:36