It’s weird because when my wife and I met we fought like dogs the first couple years but by year 3? It was all peace. We got all the hard shit out of the way earlier.
2026-07-26 14:43:05
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pammykay1 :
Relationships are hard. It takes work.But if you have a good partner it's worth it.
2026-07-25 19:43:46
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Nugpapí :
We literally went through war and still wanted each other.
2026-07-26 20:52:33
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Rachel Knop :
😅 Love it!! Hi new friend! I am a girl mama x 4 💕💕 & a metastatic breast cancer warrior following you from Iowa 🌽
2026-07-29 04:44:58
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Dez.H🥷 :
alot of forgiveness, understanding and communication is key. love doesn't consist of gazing into each other's eyes, its looking in the same direction ✨️
2026-07-26 20:29:33
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Ryan McCoy :
Would do it all over again! My wife is my bestfriend!
2026-07-26 20:22:49
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My name :
Been with my 6 year long boyfriend who does drugs, me thinking he's gonna change and have a normal future together
2026-07-29 02:39:54
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Tori 🌙 :
I just want to know how long it took you guys. We’ve been in an avoidant/anxious cycle for 7 years and I can’t keep doing this.
2026-07-27 01:40:32
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Adrianna Cavazos :
No one ever said it was easy, it’s just worth it….
2026-07-29 02:33:47
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coloritblack00 :
As long as there is no cheating and any kind of abuse, I can stand tall working it out. But abuse and cheating is already the end of everything. No more second chances. You don't get to cheat or hit your partner then call it a "challenge in a relationship."
2026-07-29 04:13:48
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Lilapink :
Let me say this:The biggest green flag in a relationship is Peace 🕊️. You can work through issues without it feeling like a storm, a fire, or a ticking time bomb. 🤷🏼♀️Just saying
2026-07-26 11:52:20
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Becky :
once i realize that I too was part of problem, life with him got so much better
2026-07-28 13:01:08
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Cmercer :
No one sees the work that goes into creating a healthy relationship
2026-07-26 23:07:31
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I'm.Always.Tired :
No LITERALLY I have CPTSD and us working it out gets intense sometimes 😭
2026-07-27 19:47:41
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Dee :
This is my favourite take on this trend so far! My husband and I often get the same comments - it takes SO much work, often unseen.
2026-07-25 23:46:53
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silverwitch12 :
Fighting is normal, it’s how you get past it that counts. If you can’t weather the storm, you’re not right for each other
2026-07-26 16:14:41
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el🇺🇬 :
Me from a different African Culture. Learning a diff culture and understanding it so that it can work out with my girlfriend. I can’t even imagine what she went through trying to understand my hard accent at first but we now almost hitting one year together she’s getting used to my accent and when I can’t say the word i use google search….. so it’s not about luck it’s about the sacrifice we do for each other and support and above all being there for each other
2026-07-28 21:33:15
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mel_1988_0 :
Right!!!! Healthy relationships take work, understanding, hard conversations! Etc….
2026-07-26 21:58:40
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Ash :
in every relationship everyone has thought about calling it at some point if not several points. It’s important to never consider it an option. You both chose each other for a reason. Life is about testing you and that includes your relationships. Putting in the effort to keep going is the only thing that will save you when you’re falling. No one talks about this side of relationships
2026-07-27 15:12:44
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💐🦉𝒜🦉💐 :
Rough estimate on how long the working it out part lasts until it becomes healthy?
2026-07-26 20:00:23
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AloLaughin :
the true judge of if ur relationship will last- isnt if theres conflict, not even how big the fights are, but truly its what reconciliation looks like between u two. my partner and can have a huge fight and be cuddling and laughing together hours later. thats what truly matters, the love, and never giving up 💛
2026-07-26 22:17:04
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In Bed with the Boogeyman :
I would do anything to have him want to work it out
2026-07-26 16:57:35
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N_I_N_I_K_O :
It takes a lot of hard work to make it work, but if both partners are willing to fight for it, they can get through anything 🫥One person alone can’t make a relationship work.
2026-07-25 22:01:46
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Luna🧿 :
and the working it out part wasn’t against each other, it was whatever the universe threw at us and we always found a way❤️
2026-07-26 16:14:40
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Molly :
I see what you're saying, but I don't love this. I've been through storms WITH my husband where it was us together in a situation, such as loss of family members, major illness, and other trying times. But our relationship itself was never a storm.
2026-07-26 20:10:13
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