didn't bi women create terms like stag and doe in tumbler? why aren't they used?
2026-07-25 11:30:28
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🧡🤍🩷 :
Yup. There’s no such thing as a femme who isn’t a lesbian. 🥰
2026-07-25 13:26:14
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koi :
or like bisexuals calling themselves d*kes like. so no 🩷
2026-07-25 20:15:44
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jules ♎️ :
i’ve seen STRAIGHT women call themselves femmes & pillow princesses
2026-07-25 19:05:22
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CRAZED!!🦷🩻 :
Why is it that gay men are never watered down into gray areas, but lesbians are aaaaaalways being pulled apart and like having our terms messed with???
2026-07-26 02:15:34
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Jill 💪🏽♀️ :
The Stud/Butch-Femme dynamic is a purely Lesbian Subculture!
2026-08-19 18:18:07
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Bran🏳️🌈🇨🇦 :
Gay guy got mad at me because I told him that his straight male friends aren’t “straight bears”. Why are we doing this.
2026-08-10 00:33:44
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Brooklyn :
lesbian has a million micro labels and bi and sapphic have like none for distinguishing. I just am sapphic
2026-07-25 20:51:08
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🌻kait🌻 :
I feel like what they are failing to understand is that its not JUST a label that's similar to masc. yes it means you have more a masculine appearance, but its not just an alternative label. it is part of a lesbian-specific dynamic with femme that is rooted in history where butches would protect lesbian bars against attacks and femmes would protect butches from social harm. while i do understand that in the past there wasnt as big of a distinction between bi and lesbian and that maybe bisexual people used these terms in the past, there is a way larger distinction now. labels like butch, femme, stem, stud, have more meaning and historical context than just describing appearance. there are labels like masc and fem that can be applied to ANYONE, man, woman, gender non-conforming. and, as ive learned from this comment section, stag and doe. there are other options besides using ones that are historically lesbian
2026-07-25 17:36:25
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🐦⬛🥀 Crøw 🥀🐦⬛ :
I love my femme/stud/butch lesbians 🫶
2026-08-14 14:50:36
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𝑠ubstarr ִֶ˖ ִֶָ🪽 :
they all hate us and want to be us at the same time
2026-07-25 21:22:39
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KatieVansell🏳️🌈 :
Speak on it… Like get it together 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
2026-07-25 12:48:53
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🤥🤥 :
Unfortunately, lesbians aren’t able to have anything exclusive to them, and the community proves that over and over. They’ll use biphobic and transphobic “queer history” just to take from us and it’s exhausting. Then tell us to talk to elders as if someone’s age determines disagreement or agreement.
2026-07-26 10:33:34
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Regulus kinnie :
Also you can literally say masc😭😭😭😭 it’s probably a lot closer to your identity if your bi bc well yeah… butch is LESBIAN
2026-07-25 22:08:10
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wolfgang🇨🇦 :
I wish more bi/non lesbian women underwood this with an open mind. And like I get it, when ur queer and figuring urself out you can resonate with a lot of different labels. Once upon a time I identified as bi and started really resonating with the butch label but never claimed it for myself. Yeah turns out it I resonated with it cuz I’m a butch lesbian and was in the trenches of comp-het. People gotta take the time to calmly look inward and investigate why they resonate with certain labels rather than starting a word war with the smallest sect of the queer community who, god forbid, are trying to protect and engage with our own community
2026-07-27 21:57:07
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Jesse :
BINGOOOOO
2026-07-25 13:13:19
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Margaritas :
I definitely see someone says they are butch bisexual😳 and cursed everyone who told her that they are biphobic 😶😶
2026-07-27 13:23:41
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⋆.˚✮ ✃ ⚢ st☆rgirl ⚢ ✃ ✮˚.⋆ :
that's why my pansexual, masculine presenting wife who looks very much like a stud calls herself a masc and corrects people when she very much could just fly under the radar. its all about protecting lesbians and lesbian identities fr
2026-07-28 14:46:01
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_--einar--_ :
im not even lesbian and im pissed it's so fucking annoying. carbeters, butch, stud, Anything lesbians can't have shit 💔
2026-07-25 17:50:10
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Seabody Crochet&Cats🧡🤍🩷💚💜 :
Also white lesbians shouldn’t call themselves studs 🙂↕️
2026-07-25 09:40:58
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WillowWill - Artist(they/them) :
Why can't they create a new word?
2026-07-25 09:33:04
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TheMiniZoo :
I keep having to tell bisexual and STRAIGHT people they aren’t pillow princesses, bottoms, femme, studs, etc. but also telling white women that we can’t be stem/studs bc they’re black specific terms. Idk why some of us have forgotten that butch and futch are words or even just like…chapstick, blue jean, etc. there are so many terms, and not everyone can use every term, idk why that’s so hard for people to get
2026-07-25 13:48:07
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kbear :
Stag and doe are right there...
2026-07-25 11:24:42
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