@.hormonepositivej: One of the hardest parts of a breast cancer diagnosis isn’t just hearing… “You have cancer.” It’s deciding… “How much treatment is enough?” Many of us ask ourselves… “Should I do chemotherapy?” “Should I take Tamoxifen?” “Should I stay on an aromatase inhibitor?” “Should I take Verzenio even if I’m struggling with the side effects?” These are deeply personal questions. And they’re not always easy to answer. Here’s what we know Every treatment your oncologist recommends has one goal: To lower your risk of the cancer coming back. But here’s something every patient deserves to hear No treatment can guarantee your cancer will never return. Medicine reduces risk. It doesn’t eliminate risk. Why are treatments different for everyone? Your oncologist doesn’t recommend the same treatment for every patient. They look at: Your cancer stage Tumor size Whether lymph nodes were involved ER, PR, and HER2 status Tumor grade Genomic tests like Oncotype DX (when appropriate) All of these help estimate your personal risk and how much each treatment is expected to help. 🧬 Does treatment really make a difference? Yes. Large clinical studies have shown that: Hormone therapy (Tamoxifen or an aromatase inhibitor) significantly lowers the risk of recurrence and improves survival in hormone receptor-positive breast cancer. Chemotherapy reduces recurrence and improves survival for people whose cancers are likely to benefit from it. Verzenio (abemaciclib) further lowers the risk of recurrence for certain people with high-risk HR-positive, HER2-negative early breast cancer when added to endocrine therapy. The amount of benefit is different for every person. For some people, it’s a small improvement. For others, it’s substantial. ❤️ But what about quality of life? This is where the conversation becomes personal. Some people tolerate treatment well. Others struggle with: • Severe joint pain • Fatigue • Hot flashes • Brain fog • Diarrhea • Mood changes • Sexual side effects If treatment is affecting your daily life… Don’t stop it on your own. Talk to your oncologist. There may be options to: Treat the side effects. Change medications. Adjust the dose when appropriate. Revisit the balance between benefits and side effects. What if I choose not to take treatment? This is the question everyone wants answered. “What are my chances the cancer will come back?” The honest answer is… No one can tell you exactly. Your risk depends on your individual cancer and the treatments you receive. Some people have a very low risk of recurrence even without certain treatments. Others have a much higher risk, and the benefits of treatment can be significant. That’s why it’s so important to ask your oncologist: What is my risk if I take this treatment? What is my risk if I don’t? Those numbers are often estimated using your pathology and clinical trial data—not guessed. The message I want every survivor to hear… You are allowed to ask hard questions. You are allowed to care about your quality of life. You are allowed to understand the benefits and the side effects. The goal isn’t just to survive. The goal is to give yourself the best chance to live a long, meaningful life while making informed decisions that fit your values. There isn’t one “right” choice for everyone. There is the choice that’s best for you, made together with your oncology team. Cancer family Did you ever struggle with deciding whether to continue treatment because of the side effects? What helped you make your decision? Your story could help someone who’s sitting in their oncologist’s office today, trying to make one of the biggest decisions of their life. ❤️ LIKE • SHARE • FOLLOW Research Sources: (EBCTCG) TAILORx Trial RxPONDER Trial monarchE Trial (NCCN) (ASCO) ⚠️ Disclaimer: This post is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Decisions about chemotherapy, hormone therapy, or targeted therapy should always be made with your oncology team based on your individual cancer, overall health, and personal priorities. #support #cancer #cancersucks #breastcancer #fyp
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Saturday 25 July 2026 13:05:35 GMT
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user6075309961819 :
My sister had double mastectomy, radiation and Chemo. She was cancer free but did not like the side affects of the medicine they gave her to take for the next 5 years. Cancer came back stronger. Went to her skull, pelvic and ribs. I had to watch her die. She was about 60lbs and was only 49 years old when she died. I remember the last thing she said to me was “I didn’t know it was going to come this fast”
2026-08-06 00:10:43
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Kathy Fender :
I said no to chemo with an oncotype of 13. I did lumpectomy, sentinel node biopsy and 33 rounds of radiation. I also removed my ovaries and am taking anastrazole.
2026-07-25 19:07:44
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georgia scott138 :
I went thru 35 radiation treatments before they did an Oncotype, which came back at 33, so my oncologist said chemo was necessary. I did 3 treatments and ended up in the hospital! After spending a week in the hospital I decided no more chemo! I tried the treatment of Tamoxifen and Anastrozole and Letrozole all which I had really bad side effects. I decided quality of life was more important to me, so I didn’t take anything. I’m now a 8 year cancer survivor!
2026-07-27 17:04:58
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username123451241234212 :
I had double mastectomy and I am receiving chemotherapy now, I can only speak for myself: I believe God gave me this life and only God can take it away and I feel I have no right to refuse any treatment he is providing for me through medical science and wonderful caring doctors. Everyone is different, there is no right or wrong answer here; you have to make a decision you are comfortable with - the answer is within you …miracles do happen
2026-07-25 20:43:45
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CovCase :
I decided for me the tamoxifen wasn’t worth it.
2026-08-05 00:19:46
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gotelltheplatypus :
If you are talking about early stage breast cancer, then yes, so long as the treatment has proven benefits. If you are talking about stage 4, I would try the treatments, but discontinue if they had bad side effects. 16 years of survival here, stage 3 breast cancer,
2026-07-25 19:49:07
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Tess :
I had a double mastectomy. Did not do chemo or radiation. Nope. Blockers tried and side effects were too much. Opted out of that too. If cancer comes back then so be it. Quality over quantity is my feeling. You have to choose for you. 🥰🥰Cancer free 4 years.
2026-07-29 19:41:48
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This Chic Creates :
I’ve already been on anastrozole as well as letrozole with horrible side effects. I’m gonna give the next one to try in hopes that it’ll be better. I don’t wanna give up on it, but I know I can’t live the way I felt on those two previous hormone blockers. It affects everyone differently.
2026-07-25 21:38:13
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SANDY HUSKINSON :
There are so many variables. I was 47 had lumpectomy, chemo and radiation. Triple negative. Cancer free for 18 yrs. Then cancer in the same breast er+ her2-. Had double mastectomy. Tried AI’s. Felt awful, tried 2 kinds, quit. 68 felt spot on chest wall, had ultrasound saw nothing. Had CT showed cancer. 5 days later had a seizure. MRI showed breast cancer metastasized to brain. Anti seizure meds, Verzenio and letrosole. To me hardest of all. After a year stopped Verzrnio, had so much fatigue, spent most of a year on the couch. I’ve been NED for about 8 months.
2026-07-26 15:34:50
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Maria Torres :
Fight, pleas chemo, save my life!! is tough, but it’s worth it. God bless you..
2026-07-25 17:00:10
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pebbles :
I’m just beginning my journey! Found out last Monday. I am seeing a surgeon this Monday and oncologist Thursday for breast cancer ! Left breast
2026-07-25 21:24:02
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Kymie :
Quality of life more important than continuous treatment. I will live my remaining days and leave my care up to God. Rad & chemo I tried just can’t do again
2026-07-27 18:07:30
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Laura Matei :
this is my question as well...I done surgery, radioterapy, now I take tamoxifen but I have days even if I want to walk is difficult, joint pain weakness I just wonder if I give up of Endocrine treatment i will have my strength back?I know the side effects are not same for all of us,but is past 1 year and me i am same...one day happy that my pain is less...next day crying because my the pain is to deep....and even i take 4 years Tamoxifen no one know if cancer will be back or not....
2026-07-25 23:16:37
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JoAnne G :
Ten year survivor here. Quality of life counts. No chemo for me as oncotype was 5. Also stopped anastrazole after three years. Side effects for me were horrendous. It’s a decision each one of us makes. Good luck to you❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-26 21:03:07
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Debbie :
It’s doable! 25 year survivor here with solid quality of life 💯
2026-08-01 21:45:29
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provencioj :
God is amazing he carried me threw my treatments and I trust him with all my heart and 6 months of chemo was bumping at times but stay positive 🙏💕💕
2026-08-22 00:20:58
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June Garcia :
It depends on where you’re at with your treatment, but everybody is different and that’s your choice. Quality of life is very important.
2026-09-09 17:43:13
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Elaine Kelley :
Yes. Take every treatment. God has made these treatments available.
2026-07-26 14:45:45
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Minnie Mouse :
Don’t give up! God Bless!
2026-07-25 16:34:44
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msladybug74 :
I listen to every word my doctor said every recommendation I accepted everyone fight is personal but I would take all my treatments quality of life im like no life with treatment thats why I did all chemo radiation immunotherapy and on anastrozole and get zoladex injections 🤷🏽♀️
2026-07-25 19:32:25
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Hera Abosede :
I need help to start my treatment too
2026-09-20 19:35:50
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Valerie :
I’m stage 0 ADH, one of the “lucky” ones caught super early. I have the ATM Mutation in my pre-cancer was found very early, but I am not willing to take pharmaceuticals, too many side effects, I’m not having an ectomy and then putting myself in a microwave for six weeks. My cousin did that only for it to come back five years later than she had a mastectomy. My DMX is scheduled 8/10 and I’m confident in my decision but it’s personal choice for everyone.
2026-08-01 10:42:50
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DietzyNailTech :
I was diagnosed with DCIS ER+ PR+ Her2- I did a lumpectomy and 20 rounds of radiation and 9 months on Tamoxifen until my body had hypersensitivity and my liver enzymes went through the roof. I feel great these last couple of weeks being off it, but I know deep down I should do the nest treatment, but I feel more normal now. 🫶🙏💪 stay strong
2026-07-26 22:41:56
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Saz :
Do it all. The bad parts are a small blip, and you can have that quality of life afterwards 🩷. I did the double mastectomy, chemo, immunotherapy, and I’m on daily meds for awhile. Last summer sucked, but this summer is great. I’m out and about, seeing friends, going to concerts, hiking. And I’ll have many more summers now
2026-08-08 22:51:15
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brentklaudt :
if you started chemo finish it period
2026-07-25 17:07:52
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