@sukainalouisa: Replying to @Charlie WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER ACCEPT COFFEE OR WALKING DATES WITH MEN ⛔️ #decentermen #datingadvice #firstdate #dating #womenempowerment
Absolute rubbish … an introductory date is fine for the first meet-up for both sides ..
2026-07-25 17:09:28
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Jj Eddie :
Coffee dates are perfect. I’m not wasting an evening and hours at dinner. First date never ever dinner
2026-07-25 21:11:40
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mademoisellelune7 :
Absolutely ridiculous! This rubbish is ruining the dating game. An initial hour casual coffee /walk date just to see if you vibe is perfect. Next date, yes the man should put in a good effort… stop with this nonsense
2026-08-15 11:05:57
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Kerry :
I'd rather meet for a coffee, if he's a complete dud I'm not sitting through three courses and wishing I was somewhere else
2026-07-26 09:26:26
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jasonscott8829 :
Why would a man want to invest in a woman at the first time of meeting her. You are both meeting to see if you get on and want to see each other again. Neither person's time or effort is more important than the others
2026-07-26 10:28:54
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ف :
I wish people would stop with these videos. be realistic why should a guy invest his time, money and effort into someone he doesn't even know yet. coffee/walk in the park for the first date maybe even second s fine.
2026-07-25 20:22:41
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Ravi Manan :
As long as you are not asking for sex after a coffee date and used the time to learn more about each other there is no issue with it.
2026-08-14 13:50:16
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KayKay007 :
I dont agree, first time meeting a person id rather have a coffee, ain't no access going on here 😂 just a coffee simples
2026-07-26 11:37:36
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Dave :
why would you want to sit down for dinner for hours with someone if you know you dont like them after 10 mins
2026-07-26 10:14:17
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M :
You’re not understanding the main point of a first date. It’s see if you’re compatible with each other the investment comes after😭😭
2026-07-25 16:06:10
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Pauline :
What do you mean by 'invest in a women' why would a women even want a man to invest in her? we are not a commodity.
2026-07-26 10:12:02
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Neilymitch :
What a ridiculous take on things
2026-07-26 00:12:47
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Lucy B :
Walking lol🤣🤣
2026-07-29 16:56:01
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royalty@665 :
are you investing in him like at all???
2026-07-31 15:23:58
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Miss-katx :
No date is low investment. Some girls window shop in cartier store when they buy from primark
2026-07-27 19:19:22
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Tabi :
not correct, i personally want good communication, understanding, goood vibe, attraction so its nothing to do with money.
2026-07-26 01:14:36
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Mission 101 :
This generation is twisted.
2026-07-26 12:08:54
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Dave Roe601 :
It's not low effort, it's low risk, to see if you're actually worth the effort.
2026-07-31 06:08:51
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Chadia💄✨ :
And also cheap restaurants
2026-08-09 15:02:57
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Love 4 gym :
I'd rather meet for a coffee or a walk as i might not want to invest my precious time... As a women..
2026-08-02 21:59:52
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Ursula :
I USED TO accept coffee dates. Now it's a "no" for me. Why? Because I spend an enormous amount of time getting ready for the date plus I spend money to get ready- clothing, nails, hair, perfume. I believe in equal investment.
2026-08-17 09:43:54
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susaninika :
People are very different in person than online or even on a video call. I’d much rather meet for coffee so I can leave after 20 minutes if the in person chemistry is not there. That’s much better than getting dressed up and going to a restaurant to figure out before the appetiser arrives that you never want to see each other again. Before apps NOBODY went straight to a dinner date. You met in person, often multiple times, and talked before you were asked out on a date. That first step is missing now.
2026-07-25 20:44:01
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Nosa - Entrepreneur :
What about if the man doesn’t have money at that particular moment babe.
2026-08-22 12:11:48
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