The Vibe With Ky
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Saturday 25 July 2026 16:03:17 GMT
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Beach_Seeker :
I found out at 53. I blamed myself for everything. I wanted to be an astronomer, but I’m an admin. They wouldn’t have had the tools to help me in school like they do today. Feels like a life wasted.
2026-07-27 11:40:17
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jenniferrix63 :
Diagnosed at 60. It brought grief, relief, validation, and no excuses. I'm confused where to go from here. Learning new phrases like, masking, 🤔, task paralysis 🤔, executive dysfunction 🤔, etc. Years of being told I'm lazy and stupid. So much spacing out. Gave up, tried again. It's been 2 years. I'm so tired. No confidence in the future.
2026-07-25 18:36:39
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Jane Doe :
AuDHD here- as a kid in the 70’s, my symptoms were labeled as”non-motivated “, “daydreamer”, “doesn’t try hard enough”. Last year when I talked to my PC doctor about how distracted I get and how I get overwhelmed- but I recognize when it happening and she said that at 63, I’ve learned how to cope so why would I want to take meds or see a specialist for an “official” diagnosis. At least I know the “whys” of why I get bored, have a work history that is scattered, and it’s all based on my undiagnosed diagnosis. 🤷🏼♀️
2026-07-26 01:06:00
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Susan Hanna :
Dude, try to imagine being diagnosed with menopause and ADHD at the same time. It’s alarming and a relief.
2026-07-27 04:52:04
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JspeedM :
every teacher: you're so smart and have so much potential. you just need to apply yourself.
2026-08-14 00:22:59
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A Bird May Love a Fish :
Only getting answers now at 48
2026-09-09 20:21:01
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1anddonenow :
I actually love it!! It makes sense! It is my super power. I was 63 when I found out. And I thumb my nose at every person who was cruel and laugh as I enjoy myself
2026-09-22 05:47:31
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Mushroom Lady :
83 for me. I really was glad to learn that I have ADHD. The diagnosis explained so many of my behaviors. The only downside of learning about myself was that my husband passed away eight years before I gained this knowledge. It would’ve helped us to know and maybe would have tamped down some of our arguments.
2026-08-20 18:25:29
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FidgetNewton :
Mine came at 56. The Grieving Period was real!
2026-07-26 19:45:06
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Ms.Birdie :
I will be 69 next month lol so over it now it all makes sense[Tears of joy]
2026-09-11 22:12:31
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Kimokele :
I am just a hunter in a farmers world
2026-09-12 05:41:30
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DaniTheArtificer :
I was diagnosed with ADHD at a young age. I had a name but 75% or more of my symptoms were never connected to ADHD bc it wasn't spacing or hyperactivity. So there were so many things that were "wrong" that I didn't have a name for. future research on my own when I was old enough and running into the ADHD community on social media has given so many things a name. Answers to do many questions. Like why couldn't I just do the task? Why could I do my homework that one time vs all the other times? Why couldn't I concentrate on this vs being so focused on this other thing that someone had to wave their hand in my face?
2026-09-09 15:48:43
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🏳️🌈🐛Brenda Trottier🐉 :
I have been diagnosed as Bipolar and that doesn't even come close to most symptoms.
2026-08-12 19:49:58
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🎀Kelli🎀 :
A woman who figured it out at 41—I thought my whole life I was just a 💩 human compared to everyone else! The grief is real.
2026-07-25 16:14:03
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BubblySpaz🧷 :
not to mention that women who have ADHD experience worse symptoms in perimenopause and menopause
2026-07-27 15:48:51
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Carrie :
I'm at the grief/anger stage
2026-07-29 20:09:48
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💙 Jennie 💙 :
I’d put that number sooner. I was diagnosed in my early 50s, and I’m still mad that nobody picked up on it when I was a kid. I recently saw my report cards from elementary school (mom saved them) and the comments are hilarious. I still can’t believe I managed as well as I did but the thing I greave is what I COULD have done if I had known.
2026-07-26 00:03:06
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Whywhywhy! :
I was not diagnosed until I was in my late '50s. I still cry about it.. I don't feel the grief we'll ever leave.
2026-07-25 16:27:42
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Rai Lakai :
I was diagnosed with Audhd heavy on the aut. at 38. it validated my experience and made me know that it's never been my fault I was living in a world that wasn't built for me and that made it so much better
2026-07-25 16:15:20
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Angie Hemenway :
I have guilt. Not because I was in my 40s before my diagnosis, but because I didn't get my kids tested and now they're adults trying to navigate it.
2026-07-27 00:59:12
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Goldeelocs 10 :
I’m 65 and thank God, I was diagnosed with autism and ADHD in the 3rd grade. so I’ve always understood why I am how I am. And IM A GIRL/Woman. 🥰
2026-07-26 18:49:03
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SoulArt57 :
Diagnosed at 65. Looking back truly hurts.
2026-08-20 05:44:57
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kfolive :
this fits any neurodivergent diagnosis when you’re older.
2026-09-21 15:05:03
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Ian Montgomery :
I’m AuDHD, diagnosed at age 66. This is me too.
2026-08-04 03:02:12
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