@justaskjefferson: This is how to handle backhanded compliments.

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savlee2370id
savlee2370id :
This guy is always talking to AI I swear. These aren’t real people
2026-07-25 19:43:51
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diamondforever_3
Diamondforever_3Helena :
I passed a comment that Jlo looks great for her age and inspiration, I meant it not malicious way and someone commented, ewe agist . But she was right it is agist and made me think not to attach age to how a person looks in future 😬
2026-07-25 21:37:17
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buttons.mcg
buttons mcg 🇨🇦 :
I would reply with “ I look really good for YOUR age!”
2026-07-25 19:36:59
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carleymaxtxrealtor
CarleyMaxMovesTX :
they are really saying you look younger than your age and look.good.
2026-07-25 20:17:45
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vbar8140
vbar8140 :
I would NEVER SAY FOR YOUR AGE everrrrr .
2026-07-26 04:19:54
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mindyknows
mindyknows :
I’m 52 and I take it as a compliment. I mean, I don’t look like I’m 23 anymore and that’s ok. Most of the time they mean you look amazing compared to others in your age group. Take the win.
2026-07-26 16:59:39
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iepurela
Adriana :
i say that and is not mean, i mean a way of saying they look younger but ok…
2026-07-25 21:25:48
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mihaelasandu147
Traveltheworld :
I would ask:,,Why does it sound like an insult?"
2026-07-26 03:28:39
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shittypeoplestayaway
꧁🪷⛩️🪭𝓚𝓪𝓼𝓮𝔂🥀🌺🌸꧂ :
A backhanded compliment can make the listener feel disrespected because the praise is mixed with judgment. It often comes across as arrogant, patronizing, or as if the person is looking down on others. He could have simply said, “You look great!”
2026-07-26 04:34:29
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rosey57939
Rosey57 :
I have never been bothered by someone saying you look good for your age!🤷‍♀️I hear it all the time. I truly don’t take that personally. I’m like damn right!☝️😂😂😂
2026-07-26 01:33:37
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mad4ni
Mad4ni 🦊 :
Growing old is a privilege not granted to everyone, unfortunately.
2026-07-25 19:47:45
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theresetera3
Dr. Yasmin Ed.D, M.S., M.A :
Or telling/asking me I’m pregnant 😏
2026-07-26 01:41:41
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srkusel
spokaneman68 :
I try to answer everything with humor. Sure, that may be a deflection, but it’s also a great disarmer. If it was intended maliciously, then it disable their weapon, if it was intended, sincerely, however, clumsily, it helps point out the absurdity.
2026-07-26 14:34:36
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suzzz4691
Suzzz :
Wow!!! Thank you! Your dress is so great on you! I have never seen it look so good on others! 😬💯
2026-07-25 23:06:15
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char_gregg
Charlotte :
I would say, “so what’s my age”
2026-07-26 16:39:27
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kellyk930
MadusaRebel :
Yes they did. The benefit of the doubt just means allow them to be rude. You do not need to add to an actual compliment. Just saying "You look good" is enough.
2026-07-25 20:23:17
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friend2animals
Animal Enchantress :
I wish somebody would tell me I look good for my age 🫩
2026-07-27 03:36:43
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makeupandpolelover
Heather Nicole :
I would just give them a high five and say so do you! here’s to us cheers! 🥂
2026-07-26 19:13:20
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the_pronoia_method
The Pronoia method :
Love it 👌😊
2026-07-25 23:15:21
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tarahsaysso
tarahsaysso :
Devils advocate ~ Its always a backhanded compliment to say “for your age” 🙄
2026-07-26 07:56:35
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catriona6782
Catriona :
Stop looking for the negative and take the positive. Say 'that's kind, I feel good too' xx
2026-08-21 16:53:02
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dionnapresley
dionnapresley :
miss pepper, I love that🤣😭
2026-08-10 03:24:00
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karlaandreamartin3
Karla M ❯❯❯❯ :
Can some of you give an idea on how to respond when they say you look good after giving birth but you know you look your worst? Can’t accept the compliment, my impulse is to say oh I don’t but thank you
2026-07-31 17:48:39
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shelleygordon63
Champsgal :
I know right?!😉
2026-08-12 14:01:21
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