“Being a mom is a huge part of who I am” EXACTLY. and being child free is a huge part of who she is. Yall have different priorities and that’s ok.
2026-07-26 11:53:12
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R :
Because your life will ALWAYS revolve around your children. And that’s fine - it’s the way it should be. But she’s not interested in making new friends with people who have that specific demand in their life.
2026-07-25 23:26:09
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shalysssaaaaa :
there’s hundreds of posts about wanting “mom friends” so we really can’t get upset when someone says they want a friend who also has no kids.
2026-07-25 23:46:41
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Ashley Walker :
It has nothing to do with you being a ‘human being’ some people just want childfree friends and that’s it 🤷🏽♀️we want to be friends with people with similar lifestyles it’s not that serious
2026-07-26 15:31:24
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literaryfairy :
I’m sorry but I gotta disagree on this one. Everyone is not “against women who have children” if anything you fit an archetype and women without children are the ones discriminated against.
2026-07-26 10:12:32
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Siearra :
Being a SAHM isn’t really a job, it’s more of a lifestyle. You need compatible lifestyles to really form a friendship.
2026-07-26 23:46:43
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brittbritt999 :
As a newer mom, I get it. My baby dictates my schedule, and/or she would need to join the plans. And I get that people don’t wanna deal with all that.
2026-07-25 23:41:27
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Jules & the Giant 🍑 :
I don’t think she put the “no sahm” disclaimer because she doesn’t want to hear about your kids, I think she put that because she doesn’t want to get coffee/do Pilates/go shopping WITH your kids & the majority of sahm have their kids with them 24/7 or damn near 🤷♀️
2026-07-26 02:07:18
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SaltnVinegarChip :
She probably doesn’t want to have to compromise by making plans that accommodate you bringing your children
2026-07-26 07:05:33
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userz1826491 :
I promise you stay at home moms are not oppressed 🙏🙏
2026-07-25 23:36:15
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gooey_skeleton :
It’s not a job title it’s a lifestyle dynamic. And people don’t always want to be friends with people that have completely different lifestyles. She didn’t “write you off”, she doesn’t even know you. She just has no interest in your life style and that’s fine.
2026-07-26 14:22:18
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lava :
Unfortunately being a mom does affect your ability to down a marg! It’s okay for her to not want mom friends and k get it too bc their whole life is their kids
2026-08-21 16:13:11
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AntagBloodSong :
I think you’re taking it a bit too personally.
2026-07-26 20:59:36
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Christine Pak :
you don’t get it 🤣
2026-07-27 23:09:38
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kayla marie 🇨🇦 :
as a child free by choice person, I would never seek out mom friends. I have friends who are moms who I adore and would never write them off or stop being friends with them because of that, but if I'm actively seeking new friends, I would prefer they be childfree as well
2026-07-29 01:29:03
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Drea.ReneeJ :
this absolutely proved her point whether thats what you intended or not....
2026-07-27 00:43:26
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whatareyouthinking79 :
sahm isn’t a job though, it’s a role
2026-07-25 23:51:32
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TM :
maybe it's because we have to bring our kid with us. 😅 i can see people not wanting to hang with toddlers during brunch. I get it. I get it.
2026-07-26 13:52:17
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TikTok T :
Idk I kinda get it
2026-07-25 21:27:24
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Courtney_Lip :
This is crazy lol I think moms are against child free people
2026-09-09 11:20:28
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zkksnsainwinsk :
Not hate, and I do have SAHM friends but as a working mom I do feel like I don’t connect to SAHM moms as much. I’m very career driven and my success is a big part of me and I tend to click better with other women who can talk the same level as me
2026-07-25 23:16:26
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Grey :
We aren’t against kids at all, we just want friends that have the same flexibility and schedules as us. Parents simply don’t. I can’t go on camping/hiking trips with my mom friends. I can’t go on long road trips with my mom friends. For those still breast feeding they can’t even be away from their own house/baby for more than a couple hours. It’s just…not what I’m interested in and that’s totally okay. I don’t think you should take it so personally, you seem really sweet you’re just at a different place in life.
2026-07-25 21:53:06
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Bumble Bree 🐝 :
Genuinely… why do you care? Like she doesn’t want to friends with someone who has kids- none of my friends have kids & neither do I
2026-07-26 15:58:26
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user5672889712720 :
A lot of moms are constantly talking about their kids and almost nothing else. You said it yourself, it’s a huge part of who you are. Of course it is. And if it’s not a huge part of who she is or it’s not something she’s interested in, then maybe you don’t have as much in common as you think.
2026-07-27 03:13:46
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