I had a friend like this, when I broke our friendship up I realised quite quickly that she was exactly like my mother
2026-07-27 18:32:03
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Bulbamander | Hao-and-Yoh :
Mel do you remember a TikTok you did ages ago, when you were sat in your car and you talked about how you should pay more attention to the people who go quiet in your life when you’re doing well but then are there when things are shit - because they want to hear the bad shit to make themselves feel better but are not prepared to listen to you when you’re happy about something… when I tell you that TikTok lives in my head rent free. It’s so fucking true. It has really helped me figure out who my real friends are. Seriously it is some of the best advice I’ve ever heard.
2026-07-25 22:36:51
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risingparker :
The people that have an issue with your boundaries are the people who benefited from you not having any ❤️
2026-07-27 18:59:29
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Steph :
‘Check you’ is so passive aggressive! Element of jealousy in there for sure
2026-07-25 21:37:08
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💖Lis :
Any signs of jealousy ain’t good signs stay away from people like that!! And yeah people don’t like it when you have boundaries in the end and not compliant to there narrative
2026-07-27 11:28:21
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Laura :
My daughter has instagram too, I congratulated her and followed closely with “ make sure you put some away for tax, don’t want to be burdened with a big bill” I sometimes just blurt stuff out, it’s only because I care tho… 😏
2026-07-27 17:07:25
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aliceeskates :
I once told a “friend” I’d be doing a Masters degree and her response was ‘oh right’. They’re jealous.
2026-07-26 08:53:36
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Purdy Pants :
Sounds like they were passive aggressive, because they were jealous of you. You don’t need people like that in your life, glad you listened to your husband as he sees you for who you are. X
2026-07-25 21:42:27
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C A L A :
A fake friend can do more damage than a 100 enemies sad to say 😭💔
2026-07-25 21:25:54
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Geordiefrog :
You probably gravitated to them as they were like your mum, we repeat patterns x
2026-07-25 23:11:05
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WalkingLiability🏴 :
Sounds like jealousy to me Mel 😏
2026-07-25 22:42:22
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jadelbtelc4 :
My mam's go to is "it's....different".
2026-07-27 15:16:26
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Sarah Oatley - Artist :
Oooh the "it's very you" backhanded compliment xx
2026-07-25 20:57:32
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Debbie 🆗 :
Your smashing life Melissa fuck them. 🥰🥰🥰
2026-07-25 23:05:14
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Stephen🐝Hebbron :
It’s envy dressed up as a put down, they see you doing well and they have to spoil it. Their biggest fear is you getting wise to their game and abuse of you, because you they know they’ll lose access and you’ll move on. Them they’ll tell you your selfish. It’s a joke how transparent they are once your improved self esteem sees right through them!
2026-07-25 21:27:45
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jadebreakscycles :
Jealousy at its finest babe, love you!!
2026-07-25 21:18:36
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Evie🙀 :
I love listening to you. You’ve helped me so much ❤️
2026-07-25 20:42:11
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Shanida-Jo :
keep going kiddo, you're doing just fine, keep being you, much love 🥰
2026-07-25 20:44:02
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FeministSam :
Hello darling I’m very proud for you. You’ve achieved so much & I hope you’re proud of yourself. Ignore them, you’re beautiful. Keep showing up as your beautiful self. 💕
2026-07-25 21:07:15
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Ann.Gunther :
just wanted to say - and I know it's nothing to do with what you're saying - that your hair looks lovely ☺️
2026-07-27 13:46:01
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Maracas_85 :
I’ve cut so many people out of my life like this. With age comes lack of tolerance for people who don’t bring joy to my life
2026-07-26 06:57:55
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Andrea Cawood :
Whatever you tell a person in your circle they are supposed to be very pleased and chuffed for you. If not, kick them out of your circle. X
2026-07-25 22:20:17
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Laura Mae :
My father used to say ‘get over yourself’ - new job? Made some money? ‘Get over yourself’🙃🙃🙃
2026-07-27 08:23:52
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Lauren 🩵 :
Jealousy jealousy JEALOUSLY!!! Ignore them and put them in the bin ✨✨
2026-07-26 13:42:24
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