It’s funny. I became a house husband because it made more sense financially. It meant I was now the one to manage the house. I clean and cook, I support her after a long day at work. I put aside my career for hers. I also have to add, my PhD studies were in Social Foundations of Education. My entire program was a study of race, class, gender, and sexuality. Hell my entire work centered around identity and the manipulation of it… and it was not until I “became a woman” (my wife and I joke), that I began to get a glimpse, a whisper of understanding. I don’t think men understand how women feel because we are not remotely trained to be within that world. Perspective is gained by walking in another’s shoes, or at least observing it with care and honesty. I simply believe we live in a culture that ensures that division not only exists but is reified.
2026-09-13 11:00:00
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olinalou :
Amazing how many men on the comments still don't get it. I'd be pretty happy too if someone else kept my house and clothes clean, kept the fridge full, cared for meals and made sure the bills were paid while I came home from work and contributed nothing at all.
2026-07-30 12:21:41
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leighgal9 :
The benefit of marriage is totally on the side of the man. NOT the woman.
2026-07-26 18:40:59
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paula.hart47 :
Everything’s fine to them because their needs are met, at least to a comfortable enough standard. Meanwhile, none of very few of her needs are met.
2026-08-01 10:32:58
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user4972728818741 :
Women are also bored with men
2026-08-01 07:16:37
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Y8 :
Because they live in fantasies, and we live in reality.
2026-07-26 12:58:36
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Ya’ll FAKE AF :
Marriage was the biggest SCAM sold to women! It’s misery.
2026-08-02 00:14:34
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TheMarbleManor :
Men will tell their daughters, men only want one thing. We don’t believe it so we don’t realize till later men are all just using you.
2026-07-31 21:23:53
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yubiprecious2021 :
because generally, women carry the load.
2026-07-26 04:26:30
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Cami :
because men see wives as a free laborer.
2026-08-02 21:58:58
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none ya :
He feels the relationship is fine because his needs are being met. She feels the relationship has problems because her needs are not being met.
2026-08-01 18:19:50
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jenruby78 :
Marriage is a scam against women
2026-08-01 22:05:19
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Miranda :
Men center themselves and want women to center them
2026-07-26 17:05:56
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IK :
We are always giving and giving and later drained ...
2026-07-31 18:40:37
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Lady Spaghettio of Planet Mars :
No. you can LITERALLY tell them OVER AND OVER that things are NOT fine and they just don't take you seriously until it's over
2026-08-01 03:28:43
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Kelly :
Yeah it’s so wild that the one getting exploited is unhappy
2026-08-01 15:19:22
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Kira :
Marriage is an exercise in self harm.
2026-08-02 04:13:34
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Thrift Queen :
😂 Everything seems fine because THEY are the issue.
2026-08-03 19:04:45
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Gloria :
Because women are doing much more in that relationship
if man steps up then the woman is happier she's not doing more.
2026-08-01 03:26:35
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KittyKittyMeowMeow1212 :
If it were good for women, they wouldn’t let us have it 🤷🏽♀️
2026-08-01 22:19:34
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Deme :
Women carry the load and get no romance. So yeah doesn’t sound like happiness
2026-08-03 10:09:00
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HuskyMom :
they say the happiest people are married men and single women.
2026-08-01 04:43:56
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mayratdiaz :
That’s the reason women are not wanting marriage or relationships
2026-07-31 17:43:40
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SaltwaterAndStories :
Because the women facilitate almost all facets of the work of maintaining a healthy relationship and family and parenting, etc. I asked my former husband what he hoped he had taught our children, what knowledge did he impart that he hoped would carry them forward into adulthood. He was like huh? We had a not so funny joke about how he thought things got done in our home and it was a “effing” fairy. I was the fairy.
2026-07-26 22:25:01
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Gerl ie :
the divorce came out of nowhere
2026-08-01 10:17:23
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