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☾ ⋆⁺₊⋆༺rebe༻⋆⁺₊⋆ ☾ :
i have an avoidant attachment style… trust me, it’s hell, i’m a very caring person, but as soon as someone starts getting too close to me, i get anxious and push them away because a part of me feels like nobody could truly love me and that everyone will eventually leave.
2026-07-26 22:07:55
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Akari♡ :
My ex is avoidant too, and I only realized that after the breakup. We’re still friends, and he told me he doesn’t understand himself either. Part of him still wants me, while another part feels like he can live without me. He said he still wants me as a friend in his life, but I couldn’t accept the breakup because it happened so suddenly. We didn’t even fight, and whenever we had problems, we always tried to solve them patiently. I just didn’t know he was avoidant, and I accidentally treated the relationship too seriously, especially when it came to talking about our future, even though he did the same at the time. He was so excited about meeting me and seemed genuinely obsessed with me, but then one random day, when he didn’t have WiFi, he spent some time alone and realized he could actually be okay without having a girlfriend. He said he didn’t want to deal with relationship responsibilities right now and wanted to focus on his hobbies, goals, and games without feeling like he had to be a boyfriend, almost like he wanted to text me only whenever he felt like it. I’m an anxious person, so I needed reassurance sometimes, and at first he was willing to give it to me. I didn’t even have to ask because he would reassure me on his own, which made me get used to that consistency. I became so attached to him that I started feeling like my life was complete only when I had him, and I abandoned the people around me to stay in this small world that was just me and him. I didn’t realize he might have been feeling overwhelmed or suffocated during that time. He also made me feel protective and possessive over the relationship, like telling me to stay away from my guy best friends even though they were basically like brothers to me and already had girlfriends or were still trying to get over their exes. Looking back, I know that wasn’t healthy, but I still gave up those friendships for him because I thought he was enough for me. Later, he told me I needed to find my own happiness and stop depending on him emotionally, but I wasn’t like this before him; I changed because I became so deeply attached to him.
2026-09-22 04:34:07
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J765 :
i hate avoidants
2026-07-26 13:51:13
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jose ᥫ᭡ :
If only people gave avoidants the amount of grace we give anxious attachments. Neither is healthy.
2026-07-26 19:01:31
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Summer💕 :
If this were a video about anxious attachment none of you would be a dick about it and hate on those people. Even though anxious attachment is in no way healthier than avoidant attachment
2026-07-27 12:17:58
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Playlistavoidant :
Avoidants when they have to take responsibility
2026-07-26 16:02:28
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shdw_cc :
But there was a time
2026-07-26 17:16:35
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Slater🗡 :
Hate being compared to narcissists. Narcissists don’t believe their behavior is destructive or that they are ever the issue. Most avoidants are AWARE something is wrong and most of us are desperately trying to get better..
2026-07-30 21:21:39
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shayspage :
Ok now do anxious attachments
2026-09-22 00:55:02
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🀢 :
avoidants aren’t unlovable i just think they need a lot of self reflection, as well as anxious ones too. none are healthy
2026-07-26 19:54:20
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Mase Balison :
I’ve joined the club :(
2026-09-22 06:26:50
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insanatorium :
Avoidants when they’re pressured into physical touch
2026-07-26 13:18:03
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NVEY :
Hey avoidant, it’s okay to heal and seek therapy before jumping into a relationship.
2026-08-30 15:50:40
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Arie :
Avoidants will never take responsibility.
2026-08-27 20:44:43
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Prof.Shamie 🫧✨️ :
I bite. I don’t know why I bite.
2026-07-27 02:51:32
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𝓃𝒾𝓃𝒾♛ :
Bc they are evil 😂
2026-07-31 02:48:21
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abbs 🍂 :
and as an avoidant this is why i don’t date or talk to people in a romantic sense bc i do not want to hurt them i try to change and to heal but im not sure i ever will be able to
2026-07-26 17:55:23
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SAM :
Yall hate us so much we js hate the anxiety anxious attachment people bring us
2026-07-29 00:25:47
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tatum :
avoidants when they wanna know what it feels like to love someone and accept their love in return
2026-08-05 12:12:22
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lucidindreaming :
people ask why avoidant get into relationships but don’t ask the same question to anxiously attached peeps like we aren’t two sides of the same coin
2026-07-31 01:28:53
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Julia_07 🌀🦋🐺 :
As an avoidant, I feel like love isn’t for me. I think I will never know romantic love the way it’s supposed to be. I don’t wanna date because I know how cold and uninterested I seem and how quickly I get annoyed but at the same time I wanna feel loved for once
2026-07-29 08:38:39
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marie_cauliflower 🥀 :
As an avoidant, I honestly don’t understand how people can be clingy and text first 😭
2026-07-26 20:05:16
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zx_lx200Ky :
Being a avoidant is hard but also very comforting.
2026-07-29 15:40:55
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