@bpaigea: I really tried never to repeat the relationship I had when I was 20, but I inadvertently did it again 😬 #datingstorytime #dating #redflags #intermittentreinforcement
Honestly I used to make excuses for one guy when he would do that hot and cold bullshit and I would think “maybe he’s in love with me and he’s scared so he’s pushing me away” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I think about that now and I would never put up with that shit now!
2026-07-27 03:53:30
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Rian :
It’s always a Jason…. Imma go yell at mine for ya 😂😂😂
2026-07-26 22:59:28
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H.ta-heeyyy 👋🏼👋🏼 :
It's always the really hot ones that do this to us. The chemistry is off the rails but so is the relationship 😩
2026-07-26 22:47:08
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Melissa Rosenthal :
They mean to do it.
2026-07-26 18:36:43
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Jessica :
I’m in this right now. I hate this feeling.
2026-07-26 14:58:41
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sierra4life🎶 :
I also dated a Jason in my 19-20s.He had already a kid and was a nomad from Alaska. He was so poor he showed me a trick to get free Taco Bell by going thru drive thru and telling them they forgot to have x,y,z in the order. He had gorgeous blue eyes and dark hair too 😝✌
2026-07-26 22:14:17
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MrsMom24kids :
Yay!! You just have to commit to accepting and liking exactly the opposite of what you are normally drawn to. The results can be amazing. I did this after my first marriage and hit the lotto by picking a different type 🥰
2026-07-26 15:10:27
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Lecia_Lamae🇨🇦 :
Just went out with a guy like that. I knew it but still had to go out with him. Fml. 😂🙄
2026-07-26 15:23:20
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Amy S :
He sounds like a dismissive avoidant with cognitive dissonance on your part. How do I know? Just got through this nightmare myself. My brain only wanted to see the good. It’s so hard to break that bond and move on, but so worth it once you get through to the other side. I put it up to the universe and now have the most wonderful guy who is perfect for me. Good luck with your new guy! ❤️❤️
2026-07-26 17:02:10
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susanbkub :
Emotional abuse and a trauma bond - yep! 😬 Forget emotionally immature adult and stick with nice and well adjusted male.💜 Best of luck!
2026-07-26 22:44:08
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IowaCatfish :
Dismissive avoidant.
2026-07-26 14:47:25
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Sufferidge :
So happy for you xx
2026-07-26 18:12:30
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ssttellita :
It's actually narcissistic personality disorder and it only gets worse if you stay with them
2026-07-26 23:17:43
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Edi Henderson :
breadcrumbs and then when they give attention it's like a reward and dopamine flairs.. ask me how I know..
2026-07-27 23:28:02
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Heather Dawn :
Avoidant personality / run !!!
2026-07-26 23:54:53
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Planted.Jess :
Shout out to the new guy!!😍😍
2026-07-27 13:20:38
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Elizabeth :
Happy for you!! 🥰
2026-07-26 19:45:31
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ssttellita :
It's totally toxic because nice people don't do those things. It's not normal
2026-07-26 23:18:31
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ginad555 :
You know what to do wirh this guy
2026-07-28 18:56:44
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Valerie Wardamasky :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-07-27 19:27:46
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