My partner and I both put money into a bills account and put in a percentage based on our own income. I think she needs to implement this and he needs to put in a percentage to cover bills based on what he WAS making.
2026-07-29 12:58:14
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PandoraLockhart :
It sounds like he decided he doesn't want to work and it wasn't a team decision. I would tell him that he needs to find a job and I'm okay with him doing gig jobs or selling his collection in the meantime but he needs to be able to contribute significantly to bills. Even if it's in proportion to whatever he's bringing in that we can work out something equitable. but him deciding that he doesn't want to work or he's not going to look for a job and ask me to ruin my payment history, nope. shape up or ship out
2026-07-29 13:33:23
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Virgonation915 :
I think he quit and lied about getting fired
2026-07-28 23:21:10
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danarache :
nah, he wants to be a kept man and if he wanted to step up, he would have before now. he has shown you what's important to him
2026-07-29 13:13:34
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Selbi :
NO if he gets comfortable he’s won’t try. Lived it
2026-07-29 12:36:05
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lostinwonder :
not unless your have a prenuptial
2026-07-29 03:31:47
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Nancy Ramirez8411 :
she better put her foot down or it will end up bad
2026-07-28 21:42:38
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Shay :
Why is this even a question? She needs to put her foot down smh. He’s clearly taking advantage if he’s not even looking for another job.
2026-07-28 23:26:35
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Janine Ashwell :
He probably thinks because she now earns more that he can live off her so he’s in no hurry to find another job
2026-07-28 22:00:24
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vashon m :
He living his best life!!cut off that cell phone
2026-07-29 06:12:09
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117kimberly :
I wouldn’t have told him about my raise or any bonuses
2026-07-28 23:38:11
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SS.Devin :
If it’s never been an issue before, consider maybe it’s depression before deciding he’s lazy or something
2026-07-28 22:08:28
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Bosslady55dfk :
He needs to sell more of his Star Wars collection. And STOP hanging with the fellas.
2026-07-28 22:23:25
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4floofs :
We have separate bank accounts too. It works for us.
2026-07-29 01:14:50
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Dani 🍉 :
we have separate accounts, but we do our bills based on proportion of income.
2026-07-29 12:41:26
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Des :
he keeps getting fired...doesn't try to find a job....
2026-07-29 14:19:21
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rms.rafaella :
NOP! You mentioned hanging with his friends, but not a single thing he is doing with his time that makes your lives better. Does he cook meals? Does he clean the house? Is he studying to get better qualifications to help him earn more in a future job? Is he trying to open a business of his own? Working or not, he needs to contribute to the family dynamic. It’s not a vacation on your partner’s expense.
2026-07-29 13:42:24
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Dannyles Crystal Shop :
She needs to give a time frame before his expenses aren't paid like his phone.
2026-07-29 16:49:21
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Wendy :
He turned into a loser. 2 recent firings? Why??
2026-07-29 15:39:37
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