Lesbian here!
Most definitley spiritually a lesbian.
It means you love women in a way that women love women. As people, with a healthy amount of respect and just a tiny amount fear that borders on erotic.
Also? You shower regularly and give ZERO fucks about social norms when dressing and picking accessories. To the point of having an especially distinct aesthetic.
2026-07-27 17:55:12
600
Vi_Frost907 :
My husband is also a lesbian in a cis man’s body. He’s known in peoples phones as the ‘gay agenda’ 🤣
2026-07-27 02:20:10
641
Allia Dillard282 :
HAHAHAHA Means your safe to be around they aren't scared
2026-07-26 23:25:24
1247
JayeSWK :
Good sir that is a badge of f*cking honor. 😂
2026-07-27 02:36:32
311
sarah :
i mean i would trust you with my life, but i think they mean even if you were a woman, you would still only like women😂
2026-07-26 23:20:30
521
Minty :
oh! I think that's a compliment... you love women but you're safe.... (no surprise, I'd trust you with my drink easily)
2026-07-26 23:18:34
328
Via Brown :
Essentially, you're one of 'the girls', and assuming you're into women, girl math translates that into: One of the girls+Likes girls=✨️Lesbian✨️Just a guess, but that's how my brain translates it anyway. Especially because you're a capable guys that probably helps with stuff often (physical labor, problem solving, fixing stuff, etc.), which also reads Lesbian-Coding as "one of the girls", so.. yeah 🤷🏻♀️
2026-07-27 03:18:45
172
Lootecia :
It's a compliment. You're safe, you're resourceful, you've got a good personality and awesome taste in music... And you love women.
2026-07-27 00:02:44
160
Mel :
Because you're one of the girls and you're into women, you are given the honor of being the group lesbian. This also shows that they trust you and are comfortable around you.
2026-07-30 03:46:32
9
high :
bro that's the greatest honor we gays can bestow
2026-07-26 23:20:53
55
Bri 😸📚🌈 :
As a Lesbian, I welcome you to our ranks! I also have a cishet male 'lesbian' friend. Trust, is compliment!
2026-07-27 02:32:03
32
Ebsie :
Honestly being called an honorary lesbian is an honour it signifies that yes your into women but your safe (ie with drinks, helping girls get home safe, not going to force anything) so your like a lesbian but male
2026-07-26 23:41:18
243
Ali Marie :
Because you’re a safe man. So honorary woman 😁
2026-07-27 03:31:29
19
MJ Hansen 🏳️🌈🇨🇦🏳️⚧️♿️ :
Honorary lesbian's are (ussually) safe men to be around who love women the same way lesbians do.
You're in good company. Hozier is also an honorary Lesbian.
2026-07-28 02:15:48
31
Logan Boone :
As soon as you said it I immediately agreed
2026-07-27 00:05:08
58
katiaismymuse :
I can absolutely see someone doing that for you. Its definitely not a bad thing and is a very nice compliment.
2026-07-27 00:34:07
19
LilliRocker :
My first thought
2026-08-09 17:57:22
10
ThisIsMeNow :
This post should appear in the Oxford dictionary as “humble brag.” 😏 Respect on all counts.
2026-07-27 04:58:34
4
Jaki Vandervelde :
My interpretation of calling a straight man a lesbian is that it acknowledges that he is someone who respects women and makes them feel comfortable and is safe, while also remembering that he does in fact, date women, and is not a gay man 🤣
2026-07-27 08:40:22
21
RiverFaerie2020 :
you're intelligent, unafraid to be yourself, emotionally expressive, inspiring, artsy, fun, and attractive on multiple levels.
ive literally said before in my life that I need a gay straight man (hence your friends term honorary lesbian) because they have the depth of character, personality, and "idgaf I'm going to be myself" vibe that feels like an oasis in a desert.
2026-07-27 17:43:02
12
Kit (he/him) 🏳️⚧️ :
as an afab person I absolutely see it and agree. it's a compliment
2026-07-27 03:15:45
9
Leo :
CONGRATS! You have been adopted by the female community 😂 It means you feel like a safe person. It's a compliment 😜
2026-07-27 19:40:16
9
iamrobinbenjamin :
When I (cis gay man) was a teen, my best friend (cis straight man) was known as a male lesbian - women felt safe with him (though tbf a small fraction of them suspected that he and I were secretly a couple 😅 not helped when I came to HIS prom, and HE had the more flamboyant outfit!)
2026-07-27 08:08:31
7
sheetzjunkie 🦝🦥 :
Sadly....its because they consider you safe and emotionally intelligent imo
2026-07-27 15:48:07
21
Raleigh :
The sunflower is so cute ☺️
2026-07-27 00:20:22
12
To see more videos from user @everybodysbigbrother, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.