@teemiceli__: One day I’ll have to have the conversation about why he had to grow up so quick. Why he became the man of the house so young. I pray by the time that conversation comes, I’ll be strong enough to have it. #singlemom #divorcetok #momtok #30sclub
This physically makes me sick when i think about this for my son. He has already started “taking care of mommy” in some ways and i am devastated he has to be the “man of the house”
2026-08-10 11:29:25
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𑣲Amia :
He won’t, he’ll grow up and find out the truth and realize how grateful he is for having that parent who CHOOSE him
2026-08-11 00:05:25
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Michigan__gal :
I saw on here someone say “parents are like kidneys, you really only need one good one.” And “don’t worry, you’re loving them enough for the both of you.”
2026-08-10 23:21:47
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Jasmine🌸 :
As a daughter who’s dad hasn’t been around since I was 16-17 , listen mama , they will grow up to understand. To understand what parent made their childhood dreams come true , the parent that did it ALL. They will understand who’s the bad and who’s good. You’re doing great don’t sweat it please 🥹
2026-08-10 09:59:14
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barelyfuncti0n1ng :
and i’ll tell the whole full story.
2026-07-29 04:47:49
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Addy :
It makes me sick and so disappointed knowing he can go so long without checking up on him and that he would rather spend his time getting high or drunk
2026-08-10 20:38:21
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kenna sawyer :
you’re doing amazing mama💖💖
2026-08-10 16:38:01
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kgindle298 :
Love him a little extra those days and remember family is t people who created you but people who love you my daughter dad is a deadbeat but my parents help co parent
2026-08-10 16:52:57
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K T :
my daughter asked "when you and daddy broke up why did he break up with me " she's 10 I had to have a deep conversation he now is sober and so much better for her ♥️♥️♥️♥️it'll get better mama hugs
2026-08-02 15:31:43
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Jess♡ :
Its our jobs as single moms to be there for them in moments they begin to miss the other parent. Also remind them they have you, you love them more than anything and you are never leaving them. My youngest always remind my oldest that "its okay, we have mommy." everyday.
2026-08-10 17:27:42
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Emily 💋 :
I learned from personal experience later in my life that it wasn’t that I wasn’t good enough. It was that he wasn’t good enough for me and that’s exactly what I’m going to explain to my little boy someday. That it’s not because my little boy wasn’t good enough. It was because his dad wasn’t good enough to be in his life. 🫶
2026-08-10 19:06:54
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Yessi :
Felt 🥺 and my papasito is feeling it and it breaks my heart
2026-08-10 17:03:43
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lindsey :
I dread this so much
2026-08-10 15:17:21
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Chels :
I truly believe it’s how it’s talked about and communicated around I’ve been telling my son since he was idk 2 or earlier all families look different and I remind him of that. When he gets older I want to reinforce how deeply I knew he was special and I wanted to be his mother even before meeting him. So he never feels like someone didn’t want him.
2026-08-10 17:38:31
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janessa 💙 :
And I’ll have to explain it wasn’t him it’s because I wasn’t good enough or pretty enough for him to love me more then her 😭
2026-08-11 01:04:08
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NurseV :
There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think about the day my baby girl is sitting in her car seat and randomly asks if she has a daddy.
2026-08-10 20:43:09
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✨💋elena :
I always said that me and his dad didn’t get along and we thought it would be best if I was to be the one to raise him. We didn’t want him to grow up with fighting in his house. And I never got the question of why wasn’t I good enough.
2026-08-11 12:45:57
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kels :
😭 I’m gutted pls stop
2026-08-12 13:07:05
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nessaest.92o :
hes good enough and more 🩵🙏
2026-08-09 20:31:43
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Sgins308 :
My children have lived their entire lives never being his priority and he lived with us until my oldest was 15 and my youngest was 10. The second we separated, I begged my ex to FINALLY choose our kids and keep his secret life. Of course he did the opposite. Two yrs into our separation, because he is holding up the divorce, he has been absent unless it convenient to him. Our kids REFUSE to have a relationship with their dad. They are now 13 and 17. The thing is, they know that I always choose them. I tell them that their dad couldn’t love them the way they deserve. They are thriving and doing well. My oldest has a boyfriend and he is nothing like her dad. He is the most caring and loving person. I promise, keep showing up for your son and he will be ok.
2026-08-10 14:15:05
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A N A S A R E E 🖤 :
My fear for both my boys. 🥺
2026-08-11 00:37:52
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Em ♐️ :
His dads been part of his life but yet my son is the one who LOVES helping me with the trash, the groceries, the dishes, vacuum and sweep and he just turned 2 I’m so grateful for my sweet boy 😭😭❤️❤️
2026-08-10 16:18:32
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Chasity Pennebaker :
It gets better ❤️My almost 8yr old already had to go through this.
2026-08-10 20:14:29
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