She’s a marketing genius not an expert in psychotherapy
2026-07-27 17:45:04
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Ellen | NYC Therapist ✨ :
I agree! The let them theory isn’t an answer to everything!
2026-07-27 21:08:50
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mia :
She sounds like brook David
2026-07-27 17:08:57
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MelissaLynne :
Mom is 100% on Mel Robbins lol
2026-07-27 18:21:40
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Melodie grace :
The “Let Them” theory isn’t about letting people walk all over you or accepting poor behaviour. It’s about letting go of the need to control what other people choose to do. People are going to behave how they’re going to behave regardless. It’s not passivity, it’s accepting that people will do what they choose to do, and then deciding how you respond accordingly.
2026-07-27 18:19:32
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Shelby :
Let them is a great way to not have to deal with the messiness of human relationships. It's been co-opted as an avoidance strategy.
2026-07-27 14:05:22
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My Unfinished Life :
As a therapist I agree about Mel but everyone forgets the second portion of the equation. Let them show me who they are and let me respond accordingly.
2026-07-28 02:13:47
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Ashley MacNeil 📚 🖊️ 🌼 :
I will not be letting them ❤️
2026-07-27 17:49:17
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AC106 :
This is become one of my absolute favorite accounts on TikTok
2026-07-27 13:32:24
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pertinaci0us2.0 :
Thank you, finally someone says it out loud
2026-07-27 15:25:57
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NATASHA♥️ :
Therapist here, Mel gives me the ick 🙈
2026-07-27 20:43:32
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Sabrina Zohar :
Not a let them gal myself either mom!
2026-07-28 16:35:18
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Keltie :
Hi mom. I wrote a new book called “the F them theory” and I agree with you. Sometimes you gotta yell
2026-07-28 03:15:59
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ScreamWithRCS :
Can we get Mamma Kate’s book called **** Them?
2026-07-27 22:01:46
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Gia :
The let them theory helped me a lot but it only works on the little things not the big things or fundamental problems that you can’t let slide if that makes sense
2026-07-28 01:27:59
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jdubdev :
“F them” can totally be the 2nd half answer to Mel’s “let them.” It’s “let them & let me.” If that means exiting a relationship or speaking up about something then that’s part of it. It’s not all “is what it is”
2026-07-27 14:47:41
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victoriasidequests :
Completely agree.
2026-07-27 15:15:48
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Famlife :
I love the f them part haha
2026-07-27 14:25:40
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Ari Alexis :
I actually agree. I don’t feel like I’m a “let them” type of girl/therapist either. I’m more of a F THEM type of person too 😂😂😂😂
2026-07-28 00:18:45
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Mike Jg :
she didn’t read the book. half the book is taking action once you’ve accepted their behaviour has happened.
2026-07-27 17:12:42
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j.l :
Your mom is hellllla cautious alll the time, she is soooo like tryna be right allll the time lol
2026-07-27 13:30:29
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selfbuiltdigimum :
I don’t think taking another down is the vibe as a therapist
2026-07-27 17:56:19
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skimnotskims :
this is the litmus test. When an actual therapist weighs in on mel Robbins. 👌🏼
2026-07-27 20:41:55
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Kristy :
She’s like Rachel Hollis 2.0
2026-07-27 22:16:58
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Hertfordshirewoman :
I’m autistic and Mel Robbins. Makes the hairs on my arms stand up. I would love a deeper take on her.
2026-07-27 16:09:29
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